8:46

وَأَطِيعُواْ ٱللَّهَ وَرَسُولَهُۥ وَلَا تَنَٰزَعُواْ فَتَفۡشَلُواْ وَتَذۡهَبَ رِيحُكُمۡۖ وَٱصۡبِرُوٓاْۚ إِنَّ ٱللَّهَ مَعَ ٱلصَّـٰبِرِينَ

WaateeAAoo Allaha warasoolahu wala tanazaAAoo fatafshaloo watathhaba reehukum waisbiroo inna Allaha maAAa alssabireena

And obey Allah and His Messenger, and do not dispute and [thus] lose courage and [then] your strength would depart; and be patient. Indeed, Allah is with the patient.

Word by word
  1. وَأَطِيعُواْAnd obey
  2. ٱللَّهَAllah
  3. وَرَسُولَهُۥand His Messenger
  4. وَلَاand (do) not
  5. تَنَٰزَعُواْdispute
  6. فَتَفۡشَلُواْlest you lose courage
  7. وَتَذۡهَبَand (would) depart
  8. رِيحُكُمۡۖyour strength
  9. وَٱصۡبِرُوٓاْۚand be patient
  10. إِنَّIndeed
  11. ٱللَّهَAllah
  12. مَعَ(is) with
  13. ٱلصَّـٰبِرِينَthe patient ones
Al-Anfal · 8:46Madinah

Quarreling drains your strength. Be patient together.

How a group loses its courage


What disputes do
disputewith one another
leads to
losing heart
then
strength goneyour wind departs
What keeps a group strong
winning argumentsI must be right
patience togetherAllah is with the patient

Ibn Kathir explains the verse as avoiding dispute with one another, which leads to defeat and failure, so their strength, endurance and courage would not leave them. The surah began with a quarrel over spoils, and here it names the cost of quarrels: be patient, Allah is with the patient.

The family business where siblings fight over every decision. The mosque committee stuck for a year. The marriage where each argument restarts the last. The energy goes into the fight, not the work. Patience with each other is strength.

Arguing it out is how we get things right.

Constant disputes drain us. Patience with each other keeps us strong.

Try this

In your next disagreement with someone close, let one point go that you would usually fight for.

Simplified reflection. Read the tafsir for scholarship.draft
Tafsir Ibn Kathir (shared passage from 8:45)

O you who believe! When you meet (an enemy) force, take a firm stand against them and remember Allah much, so that you may be successful (45)And obey Allah and His Messenger, and do not dispute (with one another) lest you lose courage and your strength departs, and be patient. Surely, Allah is with the patients (46)

Manners of War

Allah instructs His faithful servants in the manners of fighting and methods of courage when meeting the enemy in battle,

يَا أَيُّهَا الَّذِينَ آمَنُوا إِذَا لَقِيتُمْ فِئَةً فَاثْبُتُوا

(O you who believe! When you meet (an enemy) force, take a firm stand against them)

In the Two Sahihs, it is recorded that 'Abdullah bin Abi Awfa said that during one battle, Allah's Messenger ﷺ waited until the sun declined, then stood among the people and said,

يَا أَيُّهَا النَّاسُ لَا تَتَمَنَّوْا لِقَاءَ الْعَدُوِّ، واسْأَلُوا اللهَ الْعَافِيَةَ فَإِذَا لَقِيتُمُوهُمْ فَاصْبِرُوا وَاعْلَمُوا أَنَّ الْجَنَّةَ تَحْتَ ظِلَالِ السُّيُوفِ

(O people! Do not wish to face the enemy (in a battle) and ask Allah to save you (from calamities). But if you should face the enemy, then be patient and let it be known to you that Paradise is under the shadows of the swords.)

He then stood and said,

اللَّهُمَّ مُنْزِلَ الْكِتَابِ، وَمُجْرِي السَّحَابِ، وَهَازِمَ الْأَحْزَابِ، اهْزِمْهُمْ وَانْصُرْنَا عَلَيْهِم

(O Allah! Revealer of the (Holy) Book, Mover of the clouds, and Defeater of the Confederates, defeat them and grant us victory over them.)

The Command for Endurance when the Enemy Engaging

Allah commands endurance upon meeting the enemy in battle and ordains patience while fighting them. Muslims are not allowed to run or shy away, or show cowardice in battle. They are commanded to remember Allah while in that condition and never neglect His remembrance. They should rather invoke Him for support, trust in Him and seek victory over their enemies from Him. They are required to obey Allah and His Messenger ﷺ in such circumstances adhering to what He commanded them, and abstaining from what He forbade them. They are required to avoid disputing with each other, for this might lead to their defeat and failure,

وَتَذْهَبَ رِيحُكُمْ

(lest your strength departs), so that your strength, endurance and courage do not depart from you,

وَاصْبِرُوا ۚ إِنَّ اللَّهَ مَعَ الصَّابِرِينَ

(and be patient. Surely, Allah is with the patients.)

In their courage, and obedience to Allah and His Messenger, the Companions reached a level never seen before by any nation or generation before them, or any nation that will ever come. Through the blessing of the Messenger ﷺ and their obedience to what he commanded, the Companions were able to open the hearts, as well as, the various eastern and western parts of the world in a rather short time. This occurred even though they were few, compared to the armies of the various nations at that time. For example, the Romans, Persians, Turks, Slavs, Berbers, Ethiopians, Sudanese tribes, the Copts and the rest of the Children of Adam. They defeated all of these nations, until Allah's Word became the highest and His religion became dominant above all religions. The Islamic state spread over the eastern and western parts of the world in less than thirty years. May Allah grant them His pleasure, as well as, be pleased with them all, and may He gather us among them, for He is the Most Generous, and Giving.