29:25

وَقَالَ إِنَّمَا ٱتَّخَذۡتُم مِّن دُونِ ٱللَّهِ أَوۡثَٰنٗا مَّوَدَّةَ بَيۡنِكُمۡ فِي ٱلۡحَيَوٰةِ ٱلدُّنۡيَاۖ ثُمَّ يَوۡمَ ٱلۡقِيَٰمَةِ يَكۡفُرُ بَعۡضُكُم بِبَعۡضٖ وَيَلۡعَنُ بَعۡضُكُم بَعۡضٗا وَمَأۡوَىٰكُمُ ٱلنَّارُ وَمَا لَكُم مِّن نَّـٰصِرِينَ

Waqala innama ittakhathtum min dooni Allahi awthanan mawaddata baynikum fee alhayati alddunya thumma yawma alqiyamati yakfuru baAAdukum bibaAAdin wayalAAanu baAAdukum baAAdan wamawakumu alnnaru wama lakum min nasireena

And [Abraham] said, "You have only taken, other than Allah, idols as [a bond of] affection among you in worldly life. Then on the Day of Resurrection you will deny one another and curse one another, and your refuge will be the Fire, and you will not have any helpers."

Word by word
  1. وَقَالَAnd he said
  2. إِنَّمَاOnly
  3. ٱتَّخَذۡتُمyou have taken
  4. مِّنbesides
  5. دُونِbesides
  6. ٱللَّهِAllah
  7. أَوۡثَٰنٗاidols
  8. مَّوَدَّةَ(out of) love
  9. بَيۡنِكُمۡamong you
  10. فِيin
  11. ٱلۡحَيَوٰةِthe life
  12. ٱلدُّنۡيَاۖ(of) the world
  13. ثُمَّThen
  14. يَوۡمَ(on the) Day
  15. ٱلۡقِيَٰمَةِ(of) the Resurrection
  16. يَكۡفُرُyou will deny
  17. بَعۡضُكُمone another
  18. بِبَعۡضٖone another
  19. وَيَلۡعَنُand curse
  20. بَعۡضُكُمone another
  21. بَعۡضٗاone another
  22. وَمَأۡوَىٰكُمُand your abode
  23. ٱلنَّارُ(will be) the Fire
  24. وَمَاand not
  25. لَكُمfor you
  26. مِّنany
  27. نَّـٰصِرِينَhelpers
Al-'Ankabut · 29:25Makkah

Bonds built on falsehood turn into blame.

Friendships held together by idols


Two days
this worldfriends around the idols
becomes
the Daydeny and curse each other
Which friendships last
shared wrongsfun now, enemies later
shared taqwafriends on that Day too

Ibrahim told his people they gathered around idols to keep friendship and love among themselves. Ibn Kathir says on the Day this turns to hatred: followers and leaders curse each other. He cites the verse that friends become foes except those who have taqwa.

Your friend group bonds over gossip, or over the same bad habit every weekend. It feels like closeness. It is a bond that will not hold. The friends who remind you of Allah are the ones still standing with you later.

Going along with the group keeps my friendships safe.

Only friendships built on good will survive the Day. The rest turn into blame.

Try this

Think of what really holds one of your friendships together, and add one good thing to it this week.

Simplified reflection. Read the tafsir for scholarship.draft
Tafsir Ibn Kathir (shared passage from 29:24)

So nothing was the answer of people except that they said: "Kill him or burn him." Then Allah saved him from the fire. Verily, in this are indeed signs for a people who believe (24)And (Ibrahim) said: "You have taken idols instead of Allah. The love between you is only in the life of this world, but on the Day of Resurrection, you shall deny each other, and curse each other, and your abode will be the Fire, and you shall have no helper. (25)

The Response of Ibrahim's People – and how Allah controlled the Fire

Allah tells us how Ibrahim's people stubbornly and arrogantly disbelieved, and how they resisted the truth with falsehood. After Ibrahim addressed them with his words of clear guidance,

إِلَّا أَنْ قَالُوا اقْتُلُوهُ أَوْ حَرِّقُوهُ

(except that they said: "Kill him or burn him.") This was because proof had clearly been established against them, so they resorted to using their power and strength.

قَالُوا ابْنُوا لَهُ بُنْيَانًا فَأَلْقُوهُ فِي الْجَحِيمِ - فَأَرَادُوا بِهِ كَيْدًا فَجَعَلْنَاهُمُ الْأَسْفَلِينَ

(They said: "Build for him a building and throw him into the blazing fire!" So they plotted a plot against him, but We made them the lowest.)(37:97-98). They spent a long time gathering a huge amount of firewood, they built a fence around it, then they set it ablaze until its flames reached up to the sky. No greater fire had ever been lit. Then they went to Ibrahim, seized him and put him into a catapult, then they threw him into the fire. But Allah made it cool and safe for him, and after spending several days in it, he emerged unscathed. For this reason and others, Allah made him an Imam for mankind, for he offered himself to the Most Merciful, he offered his body to the flames, he offered his son as a sacrifice, and he gave his wealth to care for his guests. For all of these reasons he is beloved by the followers of all religions.

فَأَنْجَاهُ اللَّهُ مِنَ النَّارِ

(Then Allah saved him from the fire.) means, He rescued him from it by making it cool and safe for him.

إِنَّ فِي ذَٰلِكَ لَآيَاتٍ لِقَوْمٍ يُؤْمِنُونَ

(Verily, in this are indeed signs for a people who believe.) Ibrahim, peace be upon him, explains to his people that idols are incapable of doing anything,

وَقَالَ إِنَّمَا اتَّخَذْتُمْ مِنْ دُونِ اللَّهِ أَوْثَانًا مَوَدَّةَ بَيْنِكُمْ فِي الْحَيَاةِ الدُّنْيَا ۖ 

(And (Ibrahim) said: "You have taken idols instead of Allah. The love between you is only in the life of this world,) Here Ibrahim was rebuking his people for their evil deed of worshipping idols, and telling them: 'You have taken these as gods and you come together to worship them so that there is friendship and love among you in this world,'

ثُمَّ يَوْمَ الْقِيَامَةِ

(but on the Day of Resurrection,) the situation will be the opposite, and this love and friendship will turn into hatred and enmity. Then

يَكْفُرُ بَعْضُكُمْ بِبَعْضٍ

(you shall deny each other,) meaning, 'you will denounce one another and deny whatever was between you,'

وَيَلْعَنُ بَعْضُكُمْ بَعْضًا

(and curse each other,) means, the followers will curse their leaders and the leaders will curse their followers.

كُلَّمَا دَخَلَتْ أُمَّةٌ لَعَنَتْ أُخْتَهَا ۖ 

(Every time a new nation enters (the Fire), it curses its sister nation (that went before))(7:37).

الْأَخِلَّاءُ يَوْمَئِذٍ بَعْضُهُمْ لِبَعْضٍ عَدُوٌّ إِلَّا الْمُتَّقِينَ 

(Friends on that Day will be foes one to another except those who have Taqwa.)(43:67) And Allah says here:

ثُمَّ يَوْمَ الْقِيَامَةِ يَكْفُرُ بَعْضُكُمْ بِبَعْضٍ وَيَلْعَنُ بَعْضُكُمْ بَعْضًا وَمَأْوَاكُمُ النَّارُ

(but on the Day of Resurrection, you shall deny each other, and curse each other, and your abode will be the Fire,) meaning, 'your ultimate destiny after all accounts have been settled, will be the fire of Hell, and you will have no one to help you or save you from the punishment of Allah.' This will be the state of the disbelievers. As for the believers, it will be an entirely different matter.