2:156

ٱلَّذِينَ إِذَآ أَصَٰبَتۡهُم مُّصِيبَةٞ قَالُوٓاْ إِنَّا لِلَّهِ وَإِنَّآ إِلَيۡهِ رَٰجِعُونَ

Allatheena itha asabathum museebatun qaloo inna lillahi wainna ilayhi rajiAAoona

Who, when disaster strikes them, say, "Indeed we belong to Allah, and indeed to Him we will return."

Word by word
  1. ٱلَّذِينَThose who
  2. إِذَآwhen
  3. أَصَٰبَتۡهُمstrikes them
  4. مُّصِيبَةٞa misfortune
  5. قَالُوٓاْthey say
  6. إِنَّاIndeed,we
  7. لِلَّهِbelong to Allah
  8. وَإِنَّآand indeed we
  9. إِلَيۡهِtowards Him
  10. رَٰجِعُونَwill return
Al-Baqarah · 2:156Madinah

We belong to Allah, and to Him we return.

The words that reframe every loss


When the calamity hits
the losssudden, painful
they say
we belong to Allahand to Him we return
What the words do
it was minenow it is taken
it was Hisand so am I

This is how Allah describes the patient. Ibn Kathir says they say it to comfort themselves, knowing they belong to Allah and that nothing is lost with Him. Umm Salamah said these words with a dua when Abu Salamah died, and Allah gave her better: the Prophet ﷺ.

The phone screen cracks. The sale falls through. The call comes that your uncle has passed. Inna lillahi wa inna ilayhi raji'un. It is not a phrase only for funerals. It reminds you, in every size of loss, whose it all was.

What I lose was mine and it was taken from me.

Everything, including me, belongs to Allah and returns to Him.

Try this

Next small loss, even a dropped cup, say the words and ask Allah for something better.

Simplified reflection. Read the tafsir for scholarship.draft
Tafsir Ibn Kathir (shared passage from 2:155)

And certainly, We shall test you with something of fear, hunger, loss of wealth, lives and fruits, but give glad tidings to As-Sabirin (the patient)(155)Who, when afflicted with calamity, say: "Truly, to Allah we belong and truly, to Him we shall return. (156)They are those on whom are the Salawat (i.e., who are blessed and will be forgiven) from their Lord, and (they are those who) receive His mercy, and it is they who are the guided ones (157)

The Believer is Patient with the Affliction and thus gains a Reward

Allah informs us that He tests and tries His servants, just as He said in another Ayah:

وَلَنَبْلُوَنَّكُمْ حَتَّىٰ نَعْلَمَ الْمُجَاهِدِينَ مِنكُمْ وَالصَّابِرِينَ وَنَبْلُوَ أَخْبَارَكُمْ

(And surely, We shall try you till We test those who strive hard (for the cause of Allah) and As-Sabirin (the patient), and We shall test your facts (i.e., the one who is a liar, and the one who is truthful).)(47:31)

Hence, He tests them with the bounty sometimes and sometimes with the afflictions of fear and hunger. Allah said in another Ayah:

فَأَذَاقَهَا اللَّهُ لِبَاسَ الْجُوعِ وَالْخَوْفِ

(So Allah made it taste extreme of hunger (famine) and fear.)(16:112)

The frightened and the hungry persons show the effects of the affliction outwardly and this is why Allah has used here the word 'Libas' (cover or clothes) of fear and hunger. In the Ayat above, Allah used the words:

بِشَيْءٍ مِّنَ الْخَوْفِ وَالْجُوعِ

(with something of fear, hunger,) meaning, a little of each. Then (Allah said),

وَنَقْصٍ مِّنَ الْأَمْوَالِ

(loss of wealth,) meaning, some of the wealth will be destroyed,

وَالْأَنفُسِ 

(lives) meaning, losing friends, relatives and loved ones to death,

وَالثَّمَرَاتِ 

(and fruits,) meaning, the gardens and the farms will not produce the usual or expected amounts. This is why Allah said next:

وَبَشِّرِ الصَّابِرِينَ

(but give glad tidings to As-Sabirin (the patient).)

He then explained whom He meant by 'the patient' whom He praised:

الَّذِينَ إِذَا أَصَابَتْهُم مُّصِيبَةٌ قَالُوا إِنَّا لِلَّهِ وَإِنَّا إِلَيْهِ رَاجِعُونَ

(Who, when afflicted with calamity, say: "Truly, to Allah we belong and truly, to Him we shall return.") meaning, those who recite this statement to comfort themselves in the face of their loss, know that they belong to Allah and that He does what He wills with His servants. They also know that nothing and no deed, even if it was the weight of an atom, will be lost with Allah on the Day of Resurrection. These facts thus compel them to admit that they are Allah's servants and that their return will be to Him in the Hereafter.

This is why Allah said:

أُولَٰئِكَ عَلَيْهِمْ صَلَوَاتٌ مِّن رَّبِّهِمْ وَرَحْمَةٌ

(They are those on whom are the Salawat (i. e., who are blessed and will be forgiven) from their Lord, and (they are those who) receive His mercy,) meaning, Allah's praise and mercy will be with them. Sa'id bin Jubayr added, "Meaning, safety from the torment."

وَأُولَٰئِكَ هُمُ الْمُهْتَدُونَ

(and it is they who are the guided ones.) 'Umar bin Al-Khattab commented: "What righteous things, and what a great heights.

أُولَٰئِكَ عَلَيْهِمْ صَلَوَاتٌ مِّن رَّبِّهِمْ وَرَحْمَةٌ

(They are those on whom are the Salawat from their Lord, and (they are those who) receive His mercy) are the two righteous things.

وَأُولَٰئِكَ هُمُ الْمُهْتَدُونَ

(and it is they who are the guided ones) are the heights."

The heights means more rewards, and these people will be awarded their rewards and more.

The Virtue of asserting that We all belong to Allah, during Afflictions

There are several Ahadith that mention the rewards of admitting that the return is to Allah by saying:

إِنَّا لِلَّهِ وَإِنَّا إِلَيْهِ رَاجِعُونَ

("Truly, to Allah we belong and truly, to Him we shall return.") when afflictions strike. For instance, Imam Ahmad reported that Umm Salamah narrated: Once, Abu Salamah came back after he was with Allah's Messenger ﷺ and said: I heard Allah's Messenger ﷺ recite a statement that made me delighted. He said:

لَا يُصِيبُ أَحَدًا مِنَ الْمُسْلِمِينَ مُصِيبَةٌ فَيَسْتَرْجِعُ عِنْدَ مُصِيبَتِهِ ثُمَّ يقُولُ: اللَّهُمَّ أْجُرْنِي فِي مُصِيبَتِي وأَخْلِفْ لِي خَيْرًا مِنْهَا، إِلَّا فَعَلَ ذلِكَ بِهِ

(No Muslim is struck with an affliction and then says Istirja' when the affliction strikes, and then says: 'O Allah! Reward me for my loss and give me what is better than it,' but Allah will do just that.)

Umm Salamah said: So I memorized these words. When Abu Salamah died I said Istirja' and said: "O Allah! Compensate me for my loss and give me what is better than it." I then thought about it and said, "Who is better than Abu Salamah?" When my 'Iddah (the period of time before the widow or divorced woman can remarry) finished, Allah's Messenger ﷺ asked for permission to see me while I was dyeing a skin that I had. I washed my hands, gave him permission to enter and handed him a pillow, and he sat on it. He then asked me for marriage and when he finished his speech, I said, "O Messenger of Allah! It is not because I do not want you, but I am very jealous and I fear that you might experience some wrong mannerism from me for which Allah would punish me. I am old and have children." He said:

أمَّا مَا ذَكَرْتِ مِنَ الْغَيْرَةِ فَسَوْفَ يُذْهِبُهَا اللهُ عَزَّ وَجَلَّ عَنْكِ، وَأَمَّا مَا ذَكَرْتِ مِنَ السِّنِّ فَقَدْ أَصَابَنِي مِثْلُ الَّذِي أَصَابَكِ، وَأَمَّا مَا ذَكَرْتِ مِنَ الْعِيَالِ فَإِنَّمَا عِيَالُكِ عِيَالِي

(As for the jealousy that you mentioned, Allah the Exalted will remove it from you. As for your being old as you mentioned, I have suffered what you have suffered. And for your having children, they are my children too.)

She said, "I have surrendered to Allah's Messenger." Allah's Messenger ﷺ married her and Umm Salamah said later, "Allah compensated me with who is better than Abu Salamah: Allah's Messenger ﷺ." Muslim reported a shorter version of this Hadith.