Stubborn hearts let denial settle in.
What arrogance does to the heart
Ibn Kathir explains that Allah lets disbelief enter the hearts of those too stubborn and too arrogant to follow His guidance. Anas and Al-Hasan Al-Basri said what enters is shirk.
Someone corrects you in a meeting and you are right that they are wrong, so you dig in. Next time you dig in faster. Pride makes the next refusal easier. The heart hardens one stubborn moment at a time.
My heart just drifts on its own; I am not responsible for it.
Each time I refuse out of pride, I make room for the next refusal.
Today, accept one correction without defending yourself.