17:83

وَإِذَآ أَنۡعَمۡنَا عَلَى ٱلۡإِنسَٰنِ أَعۡرَضَ وَنَـَٔا بِجَانِبِهِۦ وَإِذَا مَسَّهُ ٱلشَّرُّ كَانَ يَـُٔوسٗا

Waitha anAAamna AAala alinsani aAArada wanaa bijanibihi waitha massahu alshsharru kana yaoosan

And when We bestow favor upon the disbeliever, he turns away and distances himself; and when evil touches him, he is ever despairing.

Word by word
  1. وَإِذَآAnd when
  2. أَنۡعَمۡنَاWe bestow favor
  3. عَلَىon
  4. ٱلۡإِنسَٰنِman
  5. أَعۡرَضَhe turns away
  6. وَنَـَٔاand becomes remote
  7. بِجَانِبِهِۦon his side
  8. وَإِذَاAnd when
  9. مَسَّهُtouches him
  10. ٱلشَّرُّthe evil
  11. كَانَhe is
  12. يَـُٔوسٗا(in) despair
Al-Isra · 17:83Makkah

Blessed, he turns away. Hurt, he despairs.

The two moods that pull us from Allah


The swing
easehealth, money, help
he
turns awayproud
hardship
he
despairsnothing good again
The steady way
up and downwith the moment
patient and doing goodin both

Ibn Kathir calls this a weakness inherent in man, except those Allah protects. With wealth and health, he turns away from worship. With disaster, he thinks nothing good will ever come again. He cites the exception: those who are patient and do good, who get forgiveness and great reward.

The raise comes in and you skip prayers for a month. The diagnosis comes and you feel Allah has abandoned you. Same person, two extremes. He was there in both.

When things are good I do not need Allah much, and when they are bad He has left me.

Allah is with me in ease and hardship, and I can stay steady with Him in both.

Try this

If today is a good day, thank Allah for it. If it is hard, ask Him for patience.

Simplified reflection. Read the tafsir for scholarship.draft
Tafsir Ibn Kathir

And when We bestow Our grace on man, he turns away and becomes arrogant. And when evil touches him, he is in great despair (83)Say: "Each one does according to Shakilatihi, and your Lord knows best of him whose path is right. (84)

Turning away from Allah at Times of Ease and despairing at Times of Calamity

Allah tells us about the weakness that is inherent in man, except for those whom He protects at both times of ease and calamity. If Allah blesses a man with wealth, good health, ease, provision and help, and he gets what he wants, he turns away from the obedience and worship of Allah, and becomes arrogant. Mujahid said, "(It means) he goes away from Us." I say, this is like the Ayah:

فَلَمَّا كَشَفْنَا عَنْهُ ضُرَّهُ مَرَّ كَأَن لَّمْ يَدْعُنَا إِلَىٰ ضُرٍّ مَّسَّهُ

(But when We have removed his harm from him, he passes on as if he had never invoked Us for a harm that touched him!)[10:12] and;

فَلَمَّا نَجَّاكُمْ إِلَى الْبَرِّ أَعْرَضْتُمْ

(But when He brings you safe to land, you turn away.) When man is stricken with evil, which means disasters, accidents and calamities,

كَانَ يَئُوسًا

(he is in great despair.), meaning that he thinks he will never have anything good again. As Allah says,

وَلَئِنْ أَذَقْنَا الْإِنسَانَ مِنَّا رَحْمَةً ثُمَّ نَزَعْنَاهَا مِنْهُ إِنَّهُ لَيَئُوسٌ كَفُورٌ - وَلَئِنْ أَذَقْنَاهُ نَعْمَاءَ بَعْدَ ضَرَّاءَ مَسَّتْهُ لَيَقُولَنَّ ذَهَبَ السَّيِّئَاتُ عَنِّي ۚ إِنَّهُ لَفَرِحٌ فَخُورٌ - إِلَّا الَّذِينَ صَبَرُوا وَعَمِلُوا الصَّالِحَاتِ أُولَٰئِكَ لَهُم مَّغْفِرَةٌ وَأَجْرٌ كَبِيرٌ

(And if We give man a taste of mercy from Us, and remove it from him, verily, He is despairing, ungrateful. But if We let him taste good after evil has touched him, he is sure to say: "Ills have departed from me." Surely, he is exultant, and boastful. Except those who show patience and do righteous good deeds: those, theirs will be forgiveness and a great reward.)(11:9-11)

قُلْ كُلٌّ يَعْمَلُ عَلَىٰ شَاكِلَتِهِ

(Say: "Each one does according to Shakilatihi...") Ibn 'Abbas said, "According to his inclinations." Mujahid said, "According to his inclinations and his nature." Qatadah said, "According to his intentions." Ibn Zayd said, "According to his religion." All these suggestions are close in meaning. This Ayah - and Allah knows best - is a threat and a warning to the idolators, like the Ayah:

وَقُل لِّلَّذِينَ لَا يُؤْمِنُونَ اعْمَلُوا عَلَىٰ مَكَانَتِكُمْ

(And say to those who do not believe: "Act according to your ability and way")(11:121) So Allah says:

قُلْ كُلٌّ يَعْمَلُ عَلَىٰ شَاكِلَتِهِ فَرَبُّكُمْ أَعْلَمُ بِمَنْ هُوَ أَهْدَىٰ سَبِيلًا

(Say: "Each one does according to Shakilatihi, and your Lord knows best of him whose path is right.") meaning either us or you. Everyone will be rewarded in accordance with his deeds, for nothing whatsoever is hidden from Allah.