5:57

يَـٰٓأَيُّهَا ٱلَّذِينَ ءَامَنُواْ لَا تَتَّخِذُواْ ٱلَّذِينَ ٱتَّخَذُواْ دِينَكُمۡ هُزُوٗا وَلَعِبٗا مِّنَ ٱلَّذِينَ أُوتُواْ ٱلۡكِتَٰبَ مِن قَبۡلِكُمۡ وَٱلۡكُفَّارَ أَوۡلِيَآءَۚ وَٱتَّقُواْ ٱللَّهَ إِن كُنتُم مُّؤۡمِنِينَ

Ya ayyuha allatheena amanoo la tattakhithoo allatheena ittakhathoo deenakum huzuwan walaAAiban mina allatheena ootoo alkitaba min qablikum waalkuffara awliyaa waittaqoo Allaha in kuntum mumineena

O you who have believed, take not those who have taken your religion in ridicule and amusement among the ones who were given the Scripture before you nor the disbelievers as allies. And fear Allah, if you should [truly] be believers.

Word by word
  1. يَـٰٓأَيُّهَاO you
  2. ٱلَّذِينَwho
  3. ءَامَنُواْbelieve
  4. لَا(Do) not
  5. تَتَّخِذُواْtake
  6. ٱلَّذِينَthose who
  7. ٱتَّخَذُواْtake
  8. دِينَكُمۡyour religion
  9. هُزُوٗا(in) ridicule
  10. وَلَعِبٗاand fun
  11. مِّنَfrom
  12. ٱلَّذِينَthose who
  13. أُوتُواْare given
  14. ٱلۡكِتَٰبَthe Book
  15. مِنfrom
  16. قَبۡلِكُمۡbefore you
  17. وَٱلۡكُفَّارَand the disbelievers
  18. أَوۡلِيَآءَۚ(as) allies
  19. وَٱتَّقُواْAnd fear
  20. ٱللَّهَAllah
  21. إِنif
  22. كُنتُمyou are
  23. مُّؤۡمِنِينَbelievers
Al-Ma'idah · 5:57Madinah

Do not take as close friends those who mock your faith.

Guarding your heart from ridicule


The warning
mockeryyour faith as a joke
do not make
close alliesof those who mock
instead
fear Allahif you truly believe
What mockery does
just jokesit does not affect me
it wears you downslowly, joke by joke

Ibn Kathir explains that the verse concerns those who made the best acts of worship a subject of jest and play. It ends: fear Allah, if you are truly believers. The issue is not difference. It is taking as close allies those who make a joke of what you hold sacred.

The friend who laughs every time you step out to pray. The group chat that turns your fasting into a meme. You laugh along to fit in. The verse asks who you let into the inner circle of your heart.

If I want to keep friends, I need to laugh along when they mock religion.

I can be kind to everyone and still keep my inner circle for those who respect my faith.

Try this

Next time someone jokes about your faith, do not laugh along. Smile, stay calm, and change the subject.

Simplified reflection. Read the tafsir for scholarship.draft
Tafsir Ibn Kathir

O you who believe! Do not take as friends those who take your religion for a mockery and fun from those who received the Scriptures before you, and (nor) the disbelievers; and have Taqwa of Allah if you indeed are true believers (57)And when you proclaim the call for the Salah, they take it (but) as a mockery and fun; that is because they are a people who understand not (58)

The Prohibition of Being Loyal Friends with Disbelievers

This Ayah discourages and forbids taking the enemies of Islam and its people, such as the People of the Book and the polytheists, as friends. These disbelievers mock the most important acts that any person could ever perform, the honorable, pure acts of Islam which include all types of good for this life and the Hereafter. They mock such acts and make them the subject of jest and play, because this is what these acts represent in their misguided minds and cold hearts. Allah said;

مِّنَ الَّذِينَ أُوتُوا الْكِتَابَ مِن قَبْلِكُمْ وَالْكُفَّارَ

(from those who received the Scriptures before you and (nor) the disbelievers...) This is to clarify the particular category (of disbelievers). As Allah said,

فَاجْتَنِبُوا الرِّجْسَ مِنَ الْأَوْثَانِ

(So shun the evil of the idols...)[22:30] So some recited it "Kuffari", making it an object of the preposition, and others recited it "Kuffara", making it a predicate noun;

لَا تَتَّخِذُوا الَّذِينَ اتَّخَذُوا دِينَكُمْ هُزُوًا وَلَعِبًا مِّنَ الَّذِينَ أُوتُوا الْكِتَابَ مِن قَبْلِكُمْ 

(Take not as friends those who take your religion for a mockery and fun from those who received the Scriptures before you...) with the meaning of "nor",

وَالْكُفَّارَ أَوْلِيَاءَ

(nor the disbelievers as friends)

That is, do not take these people nor those people as friends. The meaning here of "Kuffar" [disbelievers] is idolators.

Similarly, Ibn Jarir recorded that in the recitation of Ibn Mas'ud [in place of "Kuffar" he recited it: "and those who commit Shirk. Allah's statement,

وَاتَّقُوا اللَّهَ إِن كُنتُم مُّؤْمِنِينَ

(And have Taqwa of Allah if you indeed are true believers.) means, fear Allah and do not take the enemies of you and your religion as friends, if you believe in Allah's Law and religion that these people mocked and jested about. Allah said in another Ayah,

لَّا يَتَّخِذِ الْمُؤْمِنُونَ الْكَافِرِينَ أَوْلِيَاءَ مِن دُونِ الْمُؤْمِنِينَ وَمَن يَفْعَلْ ذَٰلِكَ فَلَيْسَ مِنَ اللَّهِ فِي شَيْءٍ إِلَّا أَن تَتَّقُوا مِنْهُمْ تُقَاةً وَيُحَذِّرُكُمُ اللَّهُ نَفْسَهُ وَإِلَى اللَّهِ الْمَصِيرُ

(Let not the believers take the disbelievers as friends instead of the believers, and whoever does that, will never be helped by Allah in any way, except if you indeed fear a danger from them. And Allah warns you against Himself, and to Allah is the final return.)

The Disbelievers Mock the Prayer and the Adhan

Allah said,

وَإِذَا نَادَيْتُمْ إِلَى الصَّلَاةِ اتَّخَذُوهَا هُزُوًا وَلَعِبًا

(And when you proclaim the call for the Salah, they take it (but) as a mockery and fun;)

When you proclaim the Adhan for the prayer, which is the best action there is, for those who have sound minds and good comprehension,

اتَّخَذُوهَا 

(they take it...) also,

هُزُوًا وَلَعِبًا ذَٰلِكَ بِأَنَّهُمْ قَوْمٌ لَّا يَعْقِلُونَ

(as a mockery and fun; that is because they are a people who understand not.) the acts of worship and Allah's Law. These are the characteristics of the followers of Shaytan who,

إِذَا سَمِعَ الْأَذَانَ أَدْبَرَ وَلَهُ حُصَاصٌ، أَيْ ضُرَاطٌ، حَتَّى لَا يَسْمَعَ التَّأْذِينَ فَإِذَا قُضِيَ التَّأْذِينُ، أَقْبَلَ فَإِذَا ثُوِّبَ لِلصَّلَاةِ أَدْبَرَ، فَإِذَا قُضِيَ التَّثْوِيبُ أَقْبَلَ حَتَّى يَخْطُرَ بَيْنَ الْمَرْءِ وَقَلْبِهِ، فَيَقُولُ: اذْكُرْ كَذَا اذْكُرْ كَذَا، لِمَا لَمْ يَكُنْ يَذْكُرُ حَتَّى يَظَلَّ الرَّجُلُ لَا يَدْرِي كَمْ صَلَّى، فَإِذَا وَجَدَ أَحَدُكُمْ ذلِكَ، فَلْيَسْجُدْ سَجْدَتَيْنِ قَبْلَ السَّلَامِ

(When the call for prayer is made, Shaytan takes to his heels passing wind so that he may not hear the Adhan. When the call is finished he comes back, and when the Iqamah is pronounced, Shaytan again takes to his heels. When the Iqamah is finished he comes back again and tries to interfere with the person and his thoughts and to say, 'Remember this and that,' which he has not thought of before the prayer, until the praying person forgets how much he has prayed. If anyone of you does not remember, then he should perform two prostrations before pronouncing the Salam.) This Hadith is agreed upon. Az-Zuhri said, "Allah mentioned the Adhan in His Book,

وَإِذَا نَادَيْتُمْ إِلَى الصَّلَاةِ اتَّخَذُوهَا هُزُوًا وَلَعِبًا ذَٰلِكَ بِأَنَّهُمْ قَوْمٌ لَّا يَعْقِلُونَ

(And when you proclaim the call for the Salah, they take it (but) as a mockery and fun; that is because they are a people who understand not.)" Ibn Abi Hatim recorded this statement.