60:4

قَدۡ كَانَتۡ لَكُمۡ أُسۡوَةٌ حَسَنَةٞ فِيٓ إِبۡرَٰهِيمَ وَٱلَّذِينَ مَعَهُۥٓ إِذۡ قَالُواْ لِقَوۡمِهِمۡ إِنَّا بُرَءَـٰٓؤُاْ مِنكُمۡ وَمِمَّا تَعۡبُدُونَ مِن دُونِ ٱللَّهِ كَفَرۡنَا بِكُمۡ وَبَدَا بَيۡنَنَا وَبَيۡنَكُمُ ٱلۡعَدَٰوَةُ وَٱلۡبَغۡضَآءُ أَبَدًا حَتَّىٰ تُؤۡمِنُواْ بِٱللَّهِ وَحۡدَهُۥٓ إِلَّا قَوۡلَ إِبۡرَٰهِيمَ لِأَبِيهِ لَأَسۡتَغۡفِرَنَّ لَكَ وَمَآ أَمۡلِكُ لَكَ مِنَ ٱللَّهِ مِن شَيۡءٖۖ رَّبَّنَا عَلَيۡكَ تَوَكَّلۡنَا وَإِلَيۡكَ أَنَبۡنَا وَإِلَيۡكَ ٱلۡمَصِيرُ

Qad kanat lakum oswatun hasanatun fee ibraheema waallatheena maAAahu ith qaloo liqawmihim inna buraao minkum wamimma taAAbudoona min dooni Allahi kafarna bikum wabada baynana wabaynakumu alAAadawatu waalbaghdao abadan hatta tuminoo biAllahi wahdahu illa qawla ibraheema liabeehi laastaghfiranna laka wama amliku laka mina Allahi min shayin rabbana AAalayka tawakkalna wailayka anabna wailayka almaseeru

There has already been for you an excellent pattern in Abraham and those with him, when they said to their people, "Indeed, we are disassociated from you and from whatever you worship other than Allah. We have denied you, and there has appeared between us and you animosity and hatred forever until you believe in Allah alone" except for the saying of Abraham to his father, "I will surely ask forgiveness for you, but I have not [power to do] for you anything against Allah. Our Lord, upon You we have relied, and to You we have returned, and to You is the destination.

Word by word
  1. قَدۡIndeed
  2. كَانَتۡ(there) is
  3. لَكُمۡfor you
  4. أُسۡوَةٌan example
  5. حَسَنَةٞgood
  6. فِيٓin
  7. إِبۡرَٰهِيمَIbrahim
  8. وَٱلَّذِينَand those
  9. مَعَهُۥٓwith him
  10. إِذۡwhen
  11. قَالُواْthey said
  12. لِقَوۡمِهِمۡto their people
  13. إِنَّاIndeed,we
  14. بُرَءَـٰٓؤُاْ(are) disassociated
  15. مِنكُمۡfrom you
  16. وَمِمَّاand from what
  17. تَعۡبُدُونَyou worship
  18. مِنfrom
  19. دُونِbesides
  20. ٱللَّهِAllah
  21. كَفَرۡنَاWe have denied
  22. بِكُمۡyou
  23. وَبَدَاand has appeared
  24. بَيۡنَنَاbetween us
  25. وَبَيۡنَكُمُand between you
  26. ٱلۡعَدَٰوَةُenmity
  27. وَٱلۡبَغۡضَآءُand hatred
  28. أَبَدًاforever
  29. حَتَّىٰuntil
  30. تُؤۡمِنُواْyou believe
  31. بِٱللَّهِin Allah
  32. وَحۡدَهُۥٓAlone
  33. إِلَّاExcept
  34. قَوۡلَ(the) saying
  35. إِبۡرَٰهِيمَ(of) Ibrahim
  36. لِأَبِيهِto his father
  37. لَأَسۡتَغۡفِرَنَّSurely I ask forgiveness
  38. لَكَfor you
  39. وَمَآbut not
  40. أَمۡلِكُI have power
  41. لَكَfor you
  42. مِنَfrom
  43. ٱللَّهِAllah
  44. مِنof
  45. شَيۡءٖۖanything
  46. رَّبَّنَاOur Lord
  47. عَلَيۡكَupon You
  48. تَوَكَّلۡنَاwe put our trust
  49. وَإِلَيۡكَand to You
  50. أَنَبۡنَاwe turn
  51. وَإِلَيۡكَand to You
  52. ٱلۡمَصِيرُ(is) the final return
Al-Mumtahanah · 60:4Madinah

Ibrahim stood apart from what his people worshipped.

An excellent example, with one exception


Ibrahim and those with him
his peopleworshipping idols
they said
we are free of thisuntil you believe in Allah
then prayed
in You we trustto You we return
Standing apart
fit in, keep quieteveryone does it
stand firm, then trustthe way of Ibrahim

After Hatib's story, the surah offers a model: Ibrahim and those with him, who told their people they disowned the idols until they believed in Allah alone. Ibn Kathir notes the exception: Ibrahim's promise to seek forgiveness for his father is not an example to copy. Then they turned to Allah: in You we trust, to You we turn.

Everyone at the office party is doing something you do not do. You are the only one holding a juice. It feels lonely. Ibrahim stood alone against his whole people, and the first thing he did after was turn to Allah in trust.

Standing apart from the crowd means I will be alone.

Standing for my faith like Ibrahim means leaning fully on Allah.

Try this

Say Ibrahim's dua today: Rabbana alayka tawakkalna wa ilayka anabna wa ilayka al-masir.

Simplified reflection. Read the tafsir for scholarship.draft
Tafsir Ibn Kathir

Indeed there has been an excellent example for you in Ibrahim and those with him, when they said to their people: "Verily, we are free from you and whatever you worship besides Allah, we have rejected you, and there has started between us and you, hostility and hatred forever until you believe in Allah alone," – except the saying of Ibrahim to his father: "Verily, I will ask forgiveness for you, but I have no power to do anything for you before Allah." "Our Lord! In You we put our trust, and to You we turn in repentance, and to You is the final Return. (4)"Our Lord! Make us not a trial for the disbelievers, and forgive us, Our Lord! Verily, You, only You, are the Almighty, the All-Wise. (5)Certainly, there has been in them an excellent example for you to follow – for those who look forward to (the meeting with) Allah and the Last Day. And whosoever turns away, then verily, Allah is Al-Ghani, Al-Hamid (6)

The Good Example of Ibrahim and His Followers, when They disowned Their Disbelieving People

Allah the Exalted says to His faithful servants, whom He commanded to disown the disbelievers, to be enemies with them, and to distant themselves and separate from them:

قَدْ كَانَتْ لَكُمْ أُسْوَةٌ حَسَنَةٌ فِي إِبْرَاهِيمَ وَالَّذِينَ مَعَهُ

(Indeed there has been an excellent example for you in Ibrahim and those with him,) meaning, his followers who believed in him,

إِذْ قَالُوا لِقَوْمِهِمْ إِنَّا بُرَآءُ مِنْكُمْ 

(when they said to their people: "Verily we are free from you...") meaning, 'we disown you,'

وَمِمَّا تَعْبُدُونَ مِنْ دُونِ اللَّهِ كَفَرْنَا بِكُمْ 

(and whatever you worship besides Allah: we rejected you,) meaning, 'we disbelieve in your religion and way,'

وَبَدَا بَيْنَنَا وَبَيْنَكُمُ الْعَدَاوَةُ وَالْبَغْضَاءُ أَبَدًا

(and there has started between us and you, hostility and hatred forever) meaning, 'Animosity and enmity have appeared between us and you from now and as long as you remain on your disbelief; we will always disown you and hate you,'

 حَتَّىٰ تُؤْمِنُوا بِاللَّهِ وَحْدَهُ

(until you believe in Allah alone,) meaning, 'unless, and until, you worship Allah alone without partners and disbelieve in the idols and rivals that you worship besides Him.' Allah's statement,

 إِلَّا قَوْلَ إِبْرَاهِيمَ لِأَبِيهِ لَأَسْتَغْفِرَنَّ لَكَ

(except the saying of Ibrahim to his father: "Verily, I will ask forgiveness (from Allah) for you...") means, 'you have a good example in Ibrahim and his people; as for Ibrahim's prayers for Allah his father, it was a promise that he made for his father.' When Ibrahim became sure that his father was an enemy of Allah, he declared himself innocent of him.

Some of the believers used to invoke Allah for their parents who died as disbelievers, begging Him to forgive them. They did so claiming that Ibrahim used to invoke Allah to forgive his father. Allah the Exalted said in reply,

مَا كَانَ لِلنَّبِيِّ وَالَّذِينَ آمَنُوا أَنْ يَسْتَغْفِرُوا لِلْمُشْرِكِينَ وَلَوْ كَانُوا أُولِي قُرْبَىٰ مِنْ بَعْدِ مَا تَبَيَّنَ لَهُمْ أَنَّهُمْ أَصْحَابُ الْجَحِيمِ - وَمَا كَانَ اسْتِغْفَارُ إِبْرَاهِيمَ لِأَبِيهِ إِلَّا عَنْ مَوْعِدَةٍ وَعَدَهَا إِيَّاهُ فَلَمَّا تَبَيَّنَ لَهُ أَنَّهُ عَدُوٌّ لِلَّهِ تَبَرَّأَ مِنْهُ ۚ إِنَّ إِبْرَاهِيمَ لَأَوَّاهٌ حَلِيمٌ

(It is not for the Prophet and those who believe to ask Allah's forgiveness for the idolators, even though they be of kin, after it has become clear to them that they are the dwellers of the Fire (because they died in a state of disbelief). And Ibrahim's request for his father's forgiveness was only because of a promise he made to him .But when it became clear to him that he was an enemy of Allah, he dissociated himself from him. Verily, Ibrahim was Awwah and was forbearing.)(9:113-114) Allah said here,

قَدْ كَانَتْ لَكُمْ أُسْوَةٌ حَسَنَةٌ فِي إِبْرَاهِيمَ وَالَّذِينَ مَعَهُ إِذْ قَالُوا لِقَوْمِهِمْ إِنَّا بُرَآءُ مِنْكُمْ 

(Indeed there has been an excellent example for you in Ibrahim and those with him, when they said to their people: "Verily, we are free from you...") until,

إِلَّا قَوْلَ إِبْرَاهِيمَ لِأَبِيهِ لَأَسْتَغْفِرَنَّ لَكَ وَمَا أَمْلِكُ لَكَ مِنَ اللَّهِ مِنْ شَيْءٍ

(... except the saying of Ibrahim to his father: "Verily, I will ask forgiveness for you, but I have no power to do anything for you before Allah.") meaning, 'You cannot follow Ibrahim's example as proof in the case mentioned here, as being allowed to ask Allah to forgive those who died on Shirk.' This is the saying of Ibn 'Abbas, Mujahid, Qatadah, Muqatil bin Hayyan, Ad-Dahhak and several others.

Allah the Exalted said that Ibrahim and his companions, who parted with their people and disowned their way, said afterwards, while invoking Allah in humility and submission,

رَبَّنَا عَلَيْكَ تَوَكَّلْنَا وَإِلَيْكَ أَنَبْنَا وَإِلَيْكَ الْمَصِيرُ

(Our Lord! In You we put our trust, and to You we turn in repentance, and to You is the final Return.) meaning, 'we trust in You for all matters, we surrender all of our affairs to You, and to You is the final Return in the Hereafter,'

رَبَّنَا لَا تَجْعَلْنَا فِتْنَةً لِلَّذِينَ كَفَرُوا

(Our Lord! Make us not a trial for the disbelievers,) Mujahid said, "It means, 'Do not punish us by their hands, nor with a punishment from You.' Or they will say, 'Had these people been following the truth, the torment would not have struck them'." Ad-Dahhak said something similar. Qatadah said, "Do not give the disbelievers victory over us, thus subjecting us to trials by their hands. Surely, if You do so, they would then think that they were given victory over us because they are on the truth." This is the meaning that Ibn Jarir preferred. 'Ali bin Abi Talhah reported from Ibn 'Abbas: "Do not give them dominance over us, lest we suffer trials by their hands." Allah's statement,

وَاغْفِرْ لَنَا رَبَّنَا ۖ إِنَّكَ أَنْتَ الْعَزِيزُ الْحَكِيمُ 

(and forgive us, Our Lord! Verily, You, only You, are the Almighty, the All-Wise.) means, 'cover our mistakes from being exposed to other than You, and forgive us for what (sin) is between us and You.'

إِنَّكَ أَنْتَ الْعَزِيزُ

(Verily, You, only You, are the Almighty,) 'and those who seek refuge in Your majesty are never dealt with unjustly,'

الْحَكِيمُ 

(the All-Wise.) 'in Your statements, actions, legislation and decrees.' Allah the Exalted said,

لَقَدْ كَانَ لَكُمْ فِيهِمْ أُسْوَةٌ حَسَنَةٌ لِمَنْ كَانَ يَرْجُو اللَّهَ وَالْيَوْمَ الْآخِرَ ۚ 

(Certainly, there has been in them an excellent example for you to follow – for those who look forward to (the meeting with) Allah and the Last Day.) asserting what He has said before with the exemption mentioned, i.e., the good example that Allah mentioned before,

لِمَنْ كَانَ يَرْجُو اللَّهَ وَالْيَوْمَ الْآخِرَ

(for those who look forward to Allah and the Last Day.) thus encouraging the believers who believe in Allah and the Return to Him. Allah said,

وَمَنْ يَتَوَلَّ

(And whosoever turns away) meaning, from what Allah has ordained,

فَإِنَّ اللَّهَ هُوَ الْغَنِيُّ الْحَمِيدُ

(verily, Allah is Al-Ghani, Al-Hamid.) Allah said in another Ayah,

 إِنْ تَكْفُرُوا أَنْتُمْ وَمَنْ فِي الْأَرْضِ جَمِيعًا فَإِنَّ اللَّهَ لَغَنِيٌّ حَمِيدٌ

(If you disbelieve, you and all on the earth together, then verily! Allah is Ghani, Hamid.)(14:8) 'Ali bin Talhah reported from Ibn 'Abbas,

لَغَنِيٌّ

"(Ghani) is the One Who is perfectly rich." That is Allah. This is Allah's attribute that He alone is worthy of being described by; surely, He has no equal, none like unto Him. All praise is due to Allah, the One, the Irresistible.

حَمِيدٌ 

(Hamid) means, the praiseworthy, in all His statements and actions, there is no (true) God except Him alone.