28:16

قَالَ رَبِّ إِنِّي ظَلَمۡتُ نَفۡسِي فَٱغۡفِرۡ لِي فَغَفَرَ لَهُۥٓۚ إِنَّهُۥ هُوَ ٱلۡغَفُورُ ٱلرَّحِيمُ

Qala rabbi innee thalamtu nafsee faighfir lee faghafara lahu innahu huwa alghafooru alrraheemu

He said, "My Lord, indeed I have wronged myself, so forgive me," and He forgave him. Indeed, He is the Forgiving, the Merciful.

Word by word
  1. قَالَHe said
  2. رَبِّMy Lord
  3. إِنِّيIndeed,I
  4. ظَلَمۡتُ[I] have wronged
  5. نَفۡسِيmy soul
  6. فَٱغۡفِرۡso forgive
  7. لِي[for] me
  8. فَغَفَرَThen He forgave
  9. لَهُۥٓۚ[for] him
  10. إِنَّهُۥIndeed He
  11. هُوَHe (is)
  12. ٱلۡغَفُورُthe Oft-Forgiving
  13. ٱلرَّحِيمُthe Most Merciful
Al-Qasas · 28:16Makkah

I wronged myself, so forgive me. And He did.

The fastest way back after a terrible mistake


Musa's turn
the mistakea man is dead
admits
I wronged myselfno excuse
asks
forgiventhe Forgiving, the Merciful
What the way back needs
explaining myselfit was not really my fault
owning itthen asking

Right after the blow, Musa turned to Allah: "My Lord, I have wronged myself, so forgive me." No blaming the fight or the other man. Then He forgave him.

You snapped at your mother and slammed the door. Your mind starts building the case for why you were right. Musa's words are shorter: I did wrong, forgive me. Allah answers that kind of honesty.

What I did is too serious to be forgiven.

Owning my wrong and asking Allah plainly is the door, and He is quick to open it.

Try this

Tonight, name one wrong to Allah in your own words, with no excuse attached, and ask forgiveness.

Simplified reflection. Read the tafsir for scholarship.draft
Tafsir Ibn Kathir (shared passage from 28:14)

And when he reached maturity, and was complete, We bestowed on him Hukm and knowledge. And thus do We reward the doers of good (14)And he entered the city when its people were unaware: and he found there two men fighting, – one of his party, and the other of his foes. The man of his (own) party asked him for help against his foe, so Musa struck him with his fist and he died. He said: "This is of Shaytan's doing, verily, he is a plain misleading enemy. (15)He said: "My Lord! Verily, I have wronged myself, so forgive me." Then He forgave him. Verily, He is the Oft-Forgiving, the Most Merciful (16)He said: "My Lord! For that with which You have favored me, I will nevermore be a helper of the criminals! (17)

How Musa killed a Coptic Man

Having described Musa's beginnings, Allah then tells us that when he reached maturity, and was complete in stature, Allah gave him Hukm and religious knowledge. Mujahid said that this means prophethood.

وَكَذَٰلِكَ نَجْزِي الْمُحْسِنِينَ

(And thus do We reward the doers of good.) Then Allah describes how Musa reached the status that was decreed for him, that of Prophethood and speaking to Allah, as a direct consequence of killing the Coptic, which was the reason why he left Egypt and went to Madyan. Allah says:

وَدَخَلَ الْمَدِينَةَ عَلَىٰ حِينِ غَفْلَةٍ مِنْ أَهْلِهَا

(And he entered the city when its people were unaware.) Ibn Jurayj narrated from 'Ata' Al-Khurasani, from Ibn 'Abbas, "That was between Maghrib and 'Isha'." Ibn Al-Munkadir narrated from 'Ata' bin Yasar from Ibn 'Abbas, "That was in the middle of the day." This was also the view of Sa'id bin Jubayr, 'Ikrimah, As-Suddi and Qatadah.

فَوَجَدَ فِيهَا رَجُلَيْنِ يَقْتَتِلَانِ

(and he found there two men fighting,) meaning, hitting one another and struggling with one another.

هَٰذَا مِنْ شِيعَتِهِ

(one of his party,) meaning, an Israelite,

وَهَٰذَا مِنْ عَدُوِّهِ

(and the other of his foes.) meaning, a Coptic. This was the view of Ibn 'Abbas, Qatadah, As-Suddi and Muhammad bin Ishaq. The Israelite man asked Musa, peace be upon him, for help, and Musa took advantage of the fact that people were not paying attention, so he went to the Coptic man and

فَوَكَزَهُ مُوسَىٰ فَقَضَىٰ عَلَيْهِ

(so Musa struck him with his fist and he died.) Mujahid said, "This means he punched him with his fist." And then he died.

قَالَ

(He said) refers to Musa.

هَٰذَا مِنْ عَمَلِ الشَّيْطَانِ ۖ إِنَّهُ عَدُوٌّ مُضِلٌّ مُبِينٌ - قَالَ رَبِّ إِنِّي ظَلَمْتُ نَفْسِي فَاغْفِرْ لِي فَغَفَرَ لَهُ ۚ إِنَّهُ هُوَ الْغَفُورُ الرَّحِيمُ - قَالَ رَبِّ بِمَا أَنْعَمْتَ عَلَيَّ

("This is of Shaytan's doing, verily, he is a plain misleading enemy." He said: "My Lord! Verily, I have wronged myself, so forgive me." Then He forgave him. Verily, He is the Oft-Forgiving, the Most Merciful. He said: "My Lord! For that with which You have favored me,) meaning, 'what You have given me of prestige, power and blessings – '

 فَلَنْ أَكُونَ ظَهِيرًا

(I will nevermore be a helper of the criminals!) 'those who disbelieve in You and go against Your commands.'