Quran Universe
4:28

يُرِيدُ ٱللَّهُ أَن يُخَفِّفَ عَنكُمۡۚ وَخُلِقَ ٱلۡإِنسَٰنُ ضَعِيفٗا

Yureedu Allahu an yukhaffifa AAankum wakhuliqa alinsanu daAAeefan

And Allah wants to lighten for you [your difficulties]; and mankind was created weak.

Word by word
  1. يُرِيدُWishes
  2. ٱللَّهُAllah
  3. أَنto
  4. يُخَفِّفَlighten
  5. عَنكُمۡۚfor you
  6. وَخُلِقَand was created
  7. ٱلۡإِنسَٰنُthe mankind
  8. ضَعِيفٗاweak
An-Nisa · 4:28Madinah

You were made weak, so Allah made it lighter.

Ease built into the guidance

Why things are made easier
the humancreated weak
so
Allah lightenscommands made easy
How to see your weakness
proof I am a failureI should be stronger
known and planned forAllah made it lighter

After the rulings on marriage, the verse says: Allah wants to lighten things for you, because man was created weak. Ibn Kathir explains this is why the commands were made easy. Tawus said the weakness meant here is especially with desire.

You set big goals for yourself and keep failing. The same struggle with your eyes, your temper, your phone. You feel like the only one who cannot hold it together. Allah already knew, and built ease into His guidance for you.

If I struggle, I must not be a real believer.

Allah knows I am weak, and His guidance was made light for exactly that reason.

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Tafsir Ibn Kathir (shared passage from 4:26)

Allah wishes to make clear (what is lawful and what is unlawful) to you, and to show you the ways of those before you, and accept your repentance, and Allah is All-Knower, All-Wise (26)Allah wishes to accept your repentance, but those who follow their lusts, wish that you (believers) should deviate tremendously away (from the right path (27)Allah wishes to lighten (the burden) for you; and man was created weak (28)

Allah explains to the believers what He has allowed and prohibited for them in this and other Surahs,

وَيَهْدِيَكُمْ سُنَنَ الَّذِينَ مِن قَبْلِكُمْ

(And to show you the ways of those before you,) meaning their righteous ways and how to adhere to the commandments that He likes and is pleased with.

وَيَتُوبَ عَلَيْكُمْ

(and accept your repentance) from sin and error,

وَاللَّهُ عَلِيمٌ حَكِيمٌ

(and Allah is All-Knower, All-Wise.) in His commands, decrees, actions and statements. Allah's statement,

وَيُرِيدُ الَّذِينَ يَتَّبِعُونَ الشَّهَوَاتِ أَن تَمِيلُوا مَيْلًا عَظِيمًا

(but those who follow their lusts, wish that you (believers) should deviate tremendously away from the right path)) indicates that the followers of Shaytan among the Jews, Christians and the adulterous, wish that you would take the horrendous path of falsehood instead of the truth.

يُرِيدُ اللَّهُ أَن يُخَفِّفَ عَنكُمْ

(Allah wishes to lighten (the burden) for you") His legislation, orders, what He prohibits and what He decrees for you. This is why Allah has allowed free men to marry slave girls under certain conditions, as Mujahid and others have stated.

وَخُلِقَ الْإِنسَانُ ضَعِيفًا

(and man was created weak.) and this is why it is suitable in his case that the commands are made easy for him, because of his weakness and feebleness. Ibn Abi Hatim recorded that Tawus said that,

وَخُلِقَ الْإِنسَانُ ضَعِيفًا

(and man was created weak), "Concerning women". Waki' said, "Man's mind leaves when women are involved."