4:73

وَلَئِنۡ أَصَٰبَكُمۡ فَضۡلٞ مِّنَ ٱللَّهِ لَيَقُولَنَّ كَأَن لَّمۡ تَكُنۢ بَيۡنَكُمۡ وَبَيۡنَهُۥ مَوَدَّةٞ يَٰلَيۡتَنِي كُنتُ مَعَهُمۡ فَأَفُوزَ فَوۡزًا عَظِيمٗا

Walain asabakum fadlun mina Allahi layaqoolanna kaan lam takun baynakum wabaynahu mawaddatun ya laytanee kuntu maAAahum faafooza fawzan AAatheeman

But if bounty comes to you from Allah, he will surely say, as if there had never been between you and him any affection. "Oh, I wish I had been with them so I could have attained a great attainment."

Word by word
  1. وَلَئِنۡAnd if
  2. أَصَٰبَكُمۡbefalls you
  3. فَضۡلٞbounty
  4. مِّنَfrom
  5. ٱللَّهِAllah
  6. لَيَقُولَنَّhe would surely say
  7. كَأَنas if
  8. لَّمۡ(had) not
  9. تَكُنۢthere been
  10. بَيۡنَكُمۡbetween you
  11. وَبَيۡنَهُۥand between him
  12. مَوَدَّةٞany affection
  13. يَٰلَيۡتَنِيOh!I wish
  14. كُنتُI had been
  15. مَعَهُمۡwith them
  16. فَأَفُوزَthen I would have attained
  17. فَوۡزًاa success
  18. عَظِيمٗاgreat
An-Nisa · 4:73Madinah

Now that it went well, he wishes he had come.

Loyalty that switches on only for the gains


The same man, later
good comes to thema bounty from Allah
and he says
if only I had been therefor my share
What he was really after
he loves themhe wished he had come
he loves the shareas if no bond existed

When the believers received a bounty, the same man would speak as if there had never been affection between you. He wished he had been there, Ibn Kathir says, for his share of the gains. That was his real aim.

Your friend's start-up struggled for two years and you kept your distance. Now it is doing well, and you message: we should catch up, I always believed in you. The verse asks you to notice when your closeness tracks someone's success.

I am close to the people I care about.

Real care shows in the hard season, not just when there is something to share.

Try this

Contact one person who is going through a hard time right now, with nothing to gain from it.

Simplified reflection. Read the tafsir for scholarship.draft
Tafsir Ibn Kathir (shared passage from 4:71)

O you who believe! Take your precautions, and either go forth (on an expedition) in parties, or go forth all together (71)There is certainly among you he who would linger behind. If a misfortune befalls you, he says, "Indeed Allah has favored me in that I was not present among them. (72)But if a bounty comes to you from Allah, he would surely say ـ as if there had never been ties of affection between you and him, "Oh! I wish I had been with them; then I would have achieved a great success. (73)So fight those who trade the life of this world with the Hereafter, in the cause of Allah, and whoever fights in the cause of Allah, and is killed or gets victory, We shall bestow on him a great reward (74)

The Necessity of Taking Necessary Precautions Against the Enemy

Allah commands His faithful servants to take precautions against their enemies, by being prepared with the necessary weapons and supplies, and increasing the number of troops fighting in His cause.

ثُبَاتٍ 

(in parties) means, group after group, party after party, and expedition after expedition. 'Ali bin Talhah reported that Ibn 'Abbas said that,

فَانفِرُوا ثُبَاتٍ

(and either go forth in parties) means, "In groups, expedition after expedition,

أَوِ انفِرُوا جَمِيعًا

(or go forth all together), means, all of you." Similar was reported from Mujahid, 'Ikrimah, As-Suddi, Qatadah, Ad-Dahhak, 'Ata' Al-Khurrasani, Muqatil bin Hayyan and Khusayf Al-Jazari.

Refraining from Joining Jihad is a Sign of Hypocrites

Allah said,

وَإِنَّ مِنكُمْ لَمَن لَّيُبَطِّئَنَّ

(There is certainly among you he who would linger behind.) Mujahid and others said that this Ayah was revealed about the hypocrites. Muqatil bin Hayyan said that,

لَّيُبَطِّئَنَّ 

(linger behind) means, stays behind and does not join Jihad. It is also possible that this person himself lingers behind, while luring others away from joining Jihad. For instance, 'Abdullah bin Ubayy bin Salul, may Allah curse him, used to linger behind and lure other people to do the same and refrain from joining Jihad, as Ibn Jurayj and Ibn Jarir stated. This is why Allah said about the hypocrite, that when he lingers behind from Jihad, then:

فَإِنْ أَصَابَتْكُم مُّصِيبَةٌ

(If a misfortune befalls you) death, martyrdom, or - by Allah's wisdom - being defeated by the enemy,

قَالَ قَدْ أَنْعَمَ اللَّهُ عَلَيَّ إِذْ لَمْ أَكُن مَّعَهُمْ شَهِيدًا

(he says, "Indeed Allah has favored me that I was not present among them.") meaning, since I did not join them in battle. Because he considers this one of Allah's favors on him, unaware of the reward that he might have gained from enduring war or martyrdom, if he was killed.

وَلَئِنْ أَصَابَكُمْ فَضْلٌ مِّنَ اللَّهِ

(But if a bounty comes to you from Allah) such as victory, triumph and booty,

 لَيَقُولَنَّ كَأَن لَّمْ تَكُن بَيْنَكُمْ وَبَيْنَهُ مَوَدَّةٌ

(he would surely say - as if there had never been ties of affection between you and him,) meaning, as if he was not a follower of your religion,

يَا لَيْتَنِي كُنتُ مَعَهُمْ فَأَفُوزَ فَوْزًا عَظِيمًا

("Oh! I wish I had been with them; then I would have achieved a great success.") by being assigned a share of the booty and taking possession of that share. This is his ultimate aim and objective.

The Encouragement to Participation in Jihad

Allah then said,

فَلْيُقَاتِلْ 

(So fight) the believer with an aversion (to fighting),

فِي سَبِيلِ اللَّهِ الَّذِينَ يَشْرُونَ الْحَيَاةَ الدُّنْيَا بِالْآخِرَةِ

(those who trade the life of this world with the Hereafter) referring to those sell their religion for the meager goods of the world, and they only do this because of their disbelief and lack of faith. Allah then said;

وَمَن يُقَاتِلْ فِي سَبِيلِ اللَّهِ فَيُقْتَلْ أَوْ يَغْلِبْ فَسَوْفَ نُؤْتِيهِ أَجْرًا عَظِيمًا

(And whoever fights in the cause of Allah, and is killed or gets victory, We shall bestow on him a great reward.) meaning, whoever fights in the cause of Allah, whether he was killed or triumphant, he will earn an immense compensation and a great reward with Allah. The Two Sahihs recorded,

وَتَكَفَّلَ اللهُ لِلْمُجَاهِدِ فِي سَبِيلِهِ، إِنْ تَوَفَّاهُ أَنْ يُدْخِلَهُ الْجَنَّةَ، أَوْ يَرْجِعَهُ إِلى مَسْكَنِهِ الَّذِي خَرَجَ مِنْهُ، بِمَا نَالَ مِنْ أَجْرٍ أَوْ غَنِيمَةٍ

(Allah has guaranteed the Mujahid in His cause that He will either bring death to him, admitting into Paradise; or, He will help him return safely to his home with whatever reward and booty he gained.)