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37:135

إِلَّا عَجُوزٗا فِي ٱلۡغَٰبِرِينَ

Illa AAajoozan fee alghabireena

Except his wife among those who remained [with the evildoers].

Word by word
  1. إِلَّاExcept
  2. عَجُوزٗاan old woman
  3. فِي(was) among
  4. ٱلۡغَٰبِرِينَthose who remained behind
As-Saffat · 37:135Makkah

Except an old woman who stayed behind.

Living with a prophet did not save his wife

The exception
his familysaved
except
his wifestayed with her people
What saves a person
closeness to the righteoussame house, same name
your own choicewhom you side with

Ibn Kathir says the old woman was Lut's wife, who was destroyed along with her people. She shared a home with a messenger. She shared her heart with those who denied him.

Your father prays at the front of the mosque. Your spouse is the religious one. You are in the WhatsApp group with all the good people. None of that is your faith. Living near goodness is not the same as choosing it.

My family is religious, so I am covered.

Nobody's closeness to Allah can stand in for my own.

Try this

Do one act of worship today that is yours alone, not one you do because your family does it.

Simplified reflection. Read the tafsir for scholarship.draft
Tafsir Ibn Kathir (shared passage from 37:133)

And verily, Lut was one of the Messengers (133)When We saved him and his family, all (134)Except an old woman (his wife) who was among those who remained behind (135)Then We destroyed the rest (136)Verily, you pass by them in the morning (137)And at night; will you not then reflect (138)

The Destruction of the People of Lut (Lot)

Allah tells us that He sent His servant and Messenger Lut, peace be upon him, to his people, and they denied him, so Allah saved him from among them, him and his family with the exception of his wife, who was destroyed along with her people. Allah destroyed them with different kinds of punishments, and made their vicinity a foul, stinking lake which is on a well-travelled route where people pass by night and day (i.e., the Dead Sea, which lays close to the cities of Sodom and Gomorrah on the highway between Arabia and Syria). Allah says:

وَإِنَّكُمْ لَتَمُرُّونَ عَلَيْهِمْ مُصْبِحِينَ - وَبِاللَّيْلِ ۗ أَفَلَا تَعْقِلُونَ

(Verily, you pass by them in the morning. And at night; will you not then reflect?) meaning, 'will you not learn a lesson from them and how Allah destroyed them, and realize that a similar end awaits the disbelievers.'