9:10

لَا يَرۡقُبُونَ فِي مُؤۡمِنٍ إِلّٗا وَلَا ذِمَّةٗۚ وَأُوْلَـٰٓئِكَ هُمُ ٱلۡمُعۡتَدُونَ

La yarquboona fee muminin illan wala thimmatan waolaika humu almuAAtadoona

They do not observe toward a believer any pact of kinship or covenant of protection. And it is they who are the transgressors.

Word by word
  1. لَاNot
  2. يَرۡقُبُونَthey respect (the ties)
  3. فِيtowards
  4. مُؤۡمِنٍa believer
  5. إِلّٗا(of) kinship
  6. وَلَاand not
  7. ذِمَّةٗۚcovenant of protection
  8. وَأُوْلَـٰٓئِكَAnd those
  9. هُمُ[they]
  10. ٱلۡمُعۡتَدُونَ(are) the transgressors
At-Tawbah · 9:10Madinah

No regard for kinship, no regard for a pledge.

The ones who overstep every bond


Two bonds ignored
illkinship, blood ties
dhimmaha promise of protection
both ignored
the transgressorsthey crossed the line
What makes a transgressor
only open violence
ignoring every tiefamily and word alike

The previous verse said they would not honor ties if they gained power over the Muslims. This verse widens it: toward any believer at all, they respected neither kinship nor covenant. It is they, the verse says, who were the aggressors.

When you are angry with a cousin or a former friend, it is tempting to forget everything you owe them. The shared childhood, the favor they did, the promise you made. Hold on to the ties even when you are hurt. That is the opposite of what this verse describes.

Once someone wrongs me, I owe them nothing anymore.

Family ties and promises still count, even when I am angry.

Try this

Send one kind message to a relative you have been cold toward.

Simplified reflection. Read the tafsir for scholarship.draft
Tafsir Ibn Kathir (shared passage from 9:9)

They have purchased with the Ayat of Allah a little gain, and they hindered men from His way; evil indeed is that which they used to do (9)With regard to a believer, they respect not the ties, either of kinship or of covenant! It is they who are the transgressors (10)But if they repent, perform the Salah and give the Zakah, then they are your brethren in religion. (In this way) We explain the Ayat in detail for a people who know (11)

Allah admonishes the idolators and encourages the believers to fight against them because,

اشْتَرَوْا بِآيَاتِ اللَّهِ ثَمَنًا قَلِيلًا

(They have purchased with the Ayat of Allah a little gain,) idolators exchanged following the Ayat of Allah with the lower affairs of life that they indulged in,

فَصَدُّوا عَن سَبِيلِهِ

(and they hindered men from His way), trying to prevent the believers from following the truth,

إِنَّهُمْ سَاءَ مَا كَانُوا يَعْمَلُونَ - لَا يَرْقُبُونَ فِي مُؤْمِنٍ إِلًّا وَلَا ذِمَّةً

(evil indeed is that which they used to do. With regard to a believer, they respect not the ties, either of kinship or of covenant!)[9:9-10].

We explained these meanings before, as well as, the meaning of,

فَإِن تَابُوا وَأَقَامُوا الصَّلَاةَ

(But if they repent, perform the Salah...)