19:45

يَـٰٓأَبَتِ إِنِّيٓ أَخَافُ أَن يَمَسَّكَ عَذَابٞ مِّنَ ٱلرَّحۡمَٰنِ فَتَكُونَ لِلشَّيۡطَٰنِ وَلِيّٗا

Ya abati innee akhafu an yamassaka AAathabun mina alrrahmani fatakoona lilshshyatani waliyyan

O my father, indeed I fear that there will touch you a punishment from the Most Merciful so you would be to Satan a companion [in Hellfire]."

Word by word
  1. يَـٰٓأَبَتِO my father
  2. إِنِّيٓIndeed,I
  3. أَخَافُ[I] fear
  4. أَنthat
  5. يَمَسَّكَwill touch you
  6. عَذَابٞa punishment
  7. مِّنَfrom
  8. ٱلرَّحۡمَٰنِthe Most Gracious
  9. فَتَكُونَso you would be
  10. لِلشَّيۡطَٰنِto the Shaitaan
  11. وَلِيّٗاa friend
Maryam · 19:45Makkah

I fear for you, my father.

A warning spoken out of love


Ibrahim's fear
my fatherwhom I love
may meet
a punishmentfrom the Most Merciful
with only
Shaytan as friendwho has no power
Why he warned
to win the argumentbe proven right
because he feared for himlove

Ibrahim said he feared a punishment would reach his father. Ibn Kathir explains that then no one would help him except Shaytan, who has no power over the outcome. Even here he names Allah as the Most Merciful.

You worry about a parent who has drifted far from prayer. You can lecture, or you can say, gently: I am scared for you, because I love you. Ibrahim's warning sounds like the second one.

Warning someone means being harsh with them.

A real warning comes from fear for the person, said with love.

Try this

Make sincere dua today for one family member you worry about.

Simplified reflection. Read the tafsir for scholarship.draft
Tafsir Ibn Kathir (shared passage from 19:41)

And mention in the Book, Ibrahim. Verily, he was a man of truth, a Prophet (41)When he said to his father: "O my father! Why do you worship that which hears not, sees not and cannot avail you in anything? (42)"O my father! Verily, there has come to me the knowledge of that which came not unto you. So follow me, I will guide you to the straight path. (43)"O my father! Worship not Shaytan. Verily, Shaytan has been a rebel against the Most Gracious. (44)"O my father! Verily, I fear lest a torment from the Most Gracious should overtake you, so that you become a companion of Shaytan. (45)

Ibrahim's Admonition of His Father

Allah, the Exalted, tells His Prophet, Muhammad ﷺ,

وَاذْكُرْ فِي الْكِتَابِ إِبْرَاهِيمَ

(And mention in the Book, Ibrahim.)

"Recite this to your people who are worshipping idols and mention to them what happened with Ibrahim, the intimate Friend (Khalil) of the Most Beneficent. These idol worshippers (Arabs) are his descendants and they claim to follow his religion. Inform them that he was a truthful Prophet. Tell them about what took place with his father and how he forbade him from worshipping idols." Ibrahim said,

يَا أَبَتِ لِمَ تَعْبُدُ مَا لَا يَسْمَعُ وَلَا يُبْصِرُ وَلَا يُغْنِي عَنكَ شَيْئًا

(O my father! Why do you worship that which hears not, sees not and cannot avail you in anything?) Meaning that these idols will not benefit you, nor can they protect you from any harm.

يَا أَبَتِ إِنِّي قَدْ جَاءَنِي مِنَ الْعِلْمِ مَا لَمْ يَأْتِكَ

(O my father! Verily, there has come to me the knowledge of that which came not unto you.) This means, "Even though I am from your loins and you see me as inferior to you because I am your son, know that I have received knowledge from Allah that you do not know and it has not reached you."

فَاتَّبِعْنِي أَهْدِكَ صِرَاطًا سَوِيًّا

(So follow me, I will guide you to the straight path.) meaning, "a straight path that will carry you to the desired objective and save you from that which is dreaded (Hell)."

يَا أَبَتِ لَا تَعْبُدِ الشَّيْطَانَ

(O my father! Worship not Shaytan.) This is means, "Do not obey him by worshipping these idols. He invites to this (idolatry) and he is pleased with it." This is as Allah says,

أَلَمْ أَعْهَدْ إِلَيْكُمْ يَا بَنِي آدَمَ أَن لَّا تَعْبُدُوا الشَّيْطَانَ ۖ إِنَّهُ لَكُمْ عَدُوٌّ مُّبِينٌ

(Did I not command you, O Children of Adam, that you should not worship Shaytan. Verily, he is a plain enemy to you.)[36:60] Allah also says,

إِن يَدْعُونَ مِن دُونِهِ إِلَّا إِنَاثًا وَإِن يَدْعُونَ إِلَّا شَيْطَانًا مَّرِيدًا

(They invoke nothing but females [idols] besides Him (Allah), and they invoke nothing but Shaytan, a persistent rebel!)[4:117] Concerning Allah's statement,

إِنَّ الشَّيْطَانَ كَانَ لِلرَّحْمَٰنِ عَصِيًّا

(Verily, Shaytan has been a rebel against the Most Gracious.) This means obstinate and too arrogant to obey his Lord. Therefore, Allah expelled him and made him an outcast. Therefore, "do not follow him or you will become like him. "

يَا أَبَتِ إِنِّي أَخَافُ أَن يَمَسَّكَ عَذَابٌ مِّنَ الرَّحْمَٰنِ

(O my father! Verily, I fear lest a torment from the Most Gracious should overtake you,) "because of your associating partners with Allah and your disobedience in what I am commanding you with."

فَتَكُونَ لِلشَّيْطَانِ وَلِيًّا

(so that you become a companion of Shaytan.) This means, "there will be no one who will protect you, or help you, or assist you, except Iblis. However, neither he, nor anyone else, has any power over the outcome of matters. Following him will only cause you to be surrounded by the torment (of Allah)." This is as Allah says,

تَاللَّهِ لَقَدْ أَرْسَلْنَا إِلَىٰ أُمَمٍ مِّن قَبْلِكَ فَزَيَّنَ لَهُمُ الشَّيْطَانُ أَعْمَالَهُمْ فَهُوَ وَلِيُّهُمُ الْيَوْمَ وَلَهُمْ عَذَابٌ أَلِيمٌ

(By Allah, We indeed sent (Messengers) to the nations before you, but Shaytan made their deeds fair seeming to them. So he is their helper today (in this world), and theirs will be a painful torment.)[16:63]