19:73

وَإِذَا تُتۡلَىٰ عَلَيۡهِمۡ ءَايَٰتُنَا بَيِّنَٰتٖ قَالَ ٱلَّذِينَ كَفَرُواْ لِلَّذِينَ ءَامَنُوٓاْ أَيُّ ٱلۡفَرِيقَيۡنِ خَيۡرٞ مَّقَامٗا وَأَحۡسَنُ نَدِيّٗا

Waitha tutla AAalayhim ayatuna bayyinatin qala allatheena kafaroo lillatheena amanoo ayyu alfareeqayni khayrun maqaman waahsanu nadiyyan

And when Our verses are recited to them as clear evidences, those who disbelieve say to those who believe, "Which of [our] two parties is best in position and best in association?"

Word by word
  1. وَإِذَاAnd when
  2. تُتۡلَىٰare recited
  3. عَلَيۡهِمۡto them
  4. ءَايَٰتُنَاOur Verses
  5. بَيِّنَٰتٖclear
  6. قَالَsay
  7. ٱلَّذِينَthose who
  8. كَفَرُواْdisbelieved
  9. لِلَّذِينَto those who
  10. ءَامَنُوٓاْbelieved
  11. أَيُّWhich
  12. ٱلۡفَرِيقَيۡنِ(of) the two groups
  13. خَيۡرٞ(is) better
  14. مَّقَامٗا(in) position
  15. وَأَحۡسَنُand best
  16. نَدِيّٗا(in) assembly
Maryam · 19:73Makkah

Which side has the nicer houses and busier gatherings?

Measuring truth by success


Their argument
Quraysh chiefsgrand housesfull meeting halls
versus
the believershiding in Al-Arqam's house
so
we must be rightlook how well we live
What proves truth
wealth and crowdssuccess = right
Allah's clear versestruth stands alone

When the verses were recited, the disbelievers boasted to the believers: which group has the best homes and the busiest gatherings? Ibn Kathir says they meant: how can we be wrong while living this well? The believers then were hiding in the house of Al-Arqam.

Their channel has a million followers. Their lifestyle looks perfect. It is easy to assume that whoever looks most successful must be right. You check yourself: are you measuring truth by numbers?

If people are doing that well, they must be right.

Comfort and popularity do not prove anyone is right.

Try this

Notice one time today you judge something true just because it is popular.

Simplified reflection. Read the tafsir for scholarship.draft
Tafsir Ibn Kathir

And when Our clear Ayat are recited to them, those who disbelieve say to those who believe: "Which of the two groups has the best dwellings and the finest Nadiyyan? (73)And how many a generation have We destroyed before them, who were better in wealth, goods and outward appearance (74)

The Disbelievers boast over Their good Fortune in the World

Allah, the Exalted, informs that when the clear, evident Ayat of Allah are recited to the disbelievers, they reject them and turn away. They say about those who believe, while boasting to them and arguing that their false religion is correct,

خَيْرٌ مَّقَامًا وَأَحْسَنُ نَدِيًّا

(best dwellings and the finest Nadiyyan.) This means the best houses, with the loftiest levels and the finest Nadiyyan, which are meeting rooms for men to gather and discuss matters. Thus, this means that their meeting rooms are full of more people who come to attend. In this they were saying, "How can we be upon falsehood while we are in this manner of successful living?" These people were actually those who were concealed in the house of Al-Arqam bin Abi Al-Arqam and its likes from the other houses. This is as Allah says about them,

وَقَالَ الَّذِينَ كَفَرُوا لِلَّذِينَ آمَنُوا لَوْ كَانَ خَيْرًا مَّا سَبَقُونَا إِلَيْهِ

(And those who disbelieve say of those who believe: "Had it been a good thing, they (the weak and the poor) would not have preceded us thereto!")[46:11] Nuh's people said,

قَالُوا أَنُؤْمِنُ لَكَ وَاتَّبَعَكَ الْأَرْذَلُونَ

("Shall we believe in you, when the weakest (of the people) follow you?")[26:111] And Allah says,

وَكَذَٰلِكَ فَتَنَّا بَعْضَهُم بِبَعْضٍ لِّيَقُولُوا أَهَٰؤُلَاءِ مَنَّ اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِم مِّن بَيْنِنَا ۗ أَلَيْسَ اللَّهُ بِأَعْلَمَ بِالشَّاكِرِينَ

(Thus We have tried some of them with others, that they might say: "Is it these (poor believers) whom Allah has favored among us?" Does not Allah know best those who are grateful?)[6:53] This is why Allah refuted their doubts:

وَكَمْ أَهْلَكْنَا قَبْلَهُم مِّن قَرْنٍ

(And how many a generations have We destroyed before them) This means, "How many nations and generations did We destroy of those who denied (this message) due to their disbelief?"

هُمْ أَحْسَنُ أَثَاثًا وَرِئْيًا

(who were better in wealth, goods and outward appearance?) This means that they were better than these present people in wealth, possessions, looks and appearance. Al-A'mash reported from Abu Zibyan, who reported from Ibn 'Abbas that he said concerning the Ayah,

خَيْرٌ مَّقَامًا وَأَحْسَنُ نَدِيًّا

(best dwellings and finest Nadiyyan.) "Position [Maqam] means home, Nadi means place of gathering, wealth refers to material possessions and outward appearance is how they look physically." Al-'Awfi said that Ibn 'Abbas said, "Position [Maqam] means dwelling, Nadi means place of gathering and the blessing and happiness that they were living in. This is as Allah says about the people of Fir'awn when He destroyed them and related the story of their situation in the Qur'an,

كَمْ تَرَكُوا مِن جَنَّاتٍ وَعُيُونٍ - وَزُرُوعٍ وَمَقَامٍ كَرِيمٍ

(How many gardens and springs that they [Fir'awn's people] left behind, and green crops and honored places [Maqam].)[44:25-26] Therefore, position [Maqam] refers to their dwellings and splendid bounties, and Nadi is the places of gathering and meeting where they used to congregate. Allah said while relating the story to His Messenger ﷺ of what happened with the people of Lut,

وَتَأْتُونَ فِي نَادِيكُمُ الْمُنكَرَ

(And practice Al-Munkar (evil deeds) in your meeting places [Nadiyakum].)[29:29] The Arabs call a place of gathering a Nadi."