12:5

قَالَ يَٰبُنَيَّ لَا تَقۡصُصۡ رُءۡيَاكَ عَلَىٰٓ إِخۡوَتِكَ فَيَكِيدُواْ لَكَ كَيۡدًاۖ إِنَّ ٱلشَّيۡطَٰنَ لِلۡإِنسَٰنِ عَدُوّٞ مُّبِينٞ

Qala ya bunayya la taqsus ruyaka AAala ikhwatika fayakeedoo laka kaydan inna alshshaytana lilinsani AAaduwwun mubeenun

He said, "O my son, do not relate your vision to your brothers or they will contrive against you a plan. Indeed Satan, to man, is a manifest enemy.

Word by word
  1. قَالَHe said
  2. يَٰبُنَيَّO my son
  3. لَا(Do) not
  4. تَقۡصُصۡrelate
  5. رُءۡيَاكَyour vision
  6. عَلَىٰٓto
  7. إِخۡوَتِكَyour brothers
  8. فَيَكِيدُواْlest they plan
  9. لَكَagainst you
  10. كَيۡدًاۖa plot
  11. إِنَّIndeed
  12. ٱلشَّيۡطَٰنَthe Shaitaan
  13. لِلۡإِنسَٰنِ(is) to man
  14. عَدُوّٞan enemy
  15. مُّبِينٞopen
Yusuf · 12:5Makkah

Do not tell your brothers. Some news invites envy.

A father's protective advice about good news


What Yaqub feared
the dreama sign of honor
if told
envythe brothers
becomes
a plotShaytan, an open enemy
Sharing good news
tell everyonethey will be happy for me
hold it closeevery blessing is envied

Yaqub understood the dream meant his sons would one day honor Yusuf. He feared they would envy him and plot against him. Ibn Kathir cites the teaching to keep a coming blessing quiet until it arrives.

The job offer is not signed yet. The pregnancy is eight weeks. Your thumb hovers over the family group chat. Some joys are safer kept close for a while, not out of suspicion, but out of care.

If they love me, they will only be happy for me.

Even people who love me can feel envy, so I protect good news until it is settled.

Try this

Next time you have unconfirmed good news, share it with Allah first and wait a day.

Simplified reflection. Read the tafsir for scholarship.draft
Tafsir Ibn Kathir

He (the father) said: "O my son! Relate not your vision to your brothers, lest they should arrange a plot against you. Verily, Shaytan is to man an open enemy! (5)

Ya'qub orders Yusuf to hide His Vision to avoid Shaytan's Plots

Allah narrates the reply Ya'qub gave his son Yusuf when he narrated to him the vision that he saw, which indicated that his brothers would be under his authority. They would be subjugated to Yusuf's authority to such an extent that they would prostrate before him in respect, honor and appreciation. Ya'qub feared that if Yusuf narrated his vision to any of his brothers, they would envy him and conspire evil plots against him. This is why Ya'qub said to Yusuf,

لَا تَقْصُصْ رُؤْيَاكَ عَلَىٰ إِخْوَتِكَ فَيَكِيدُوا لَكَ كَيْدًا

(Relate not your vision to your brothers, lest they should arrange a plot against you.) This Ayah means, "They might arrange a plot against you that causes your demise." In the Sunnah, there is a confirmed Hadith that states,

إِذَا رَأَى أَحَدُكُمْ مَا يُحِبُّ فَلْيُحَدِّثْ بِهِ، وَإِذَا رَأَى مَا يَكْرَهُ فَلْيَتَحَوَّلْ إِلَى جَنْبِهِ الْآخَرِ، وَلْيَتْفُلْ عَنْ يَسَارِهِ ثَلَاثًا، وَلْيَسْتَعِذْ بِاللهِ مِنْ شَرِّهَا، وَلَا يُحَدِّثْ بِهَا أَحَدًا فَإِنَّهَا لَنْ تَضُرَّهُ

(If any of you saw a vision that he likes, let him narrate it. If he saw a dream that he dislikes, let him turn on his other side, blow to his left thrice, seek refuge with Allah from its evil and not tell it to anyone. Verily, it will not harm him in this case.) In another Hadith that Imam Ahmad and collectors of the Sunan collected, Mu'awiyah bin Haydah Al-Qushayri said that the Messenger of Allah ﷺ said,

الرُّؤْيَا عَلَى رِجْلِ طَائِرٍ مَا لَمْ تُعْبَرْ، فَإِذَا عُبِرَتْ وَقَعَت

(The dream is tied to a bird's leg, as long as it is not interpreted. If it is interpreted, it comes true.) Therefore, one should hide the prospects or the coming of a bounty until it comes into existence and becomes known. The Prophet ﷺ said,

اسْتَعِينُوا عَلَى قَضَاءِ الْحَوَائِجِ بِكِتْمَانِهَا، فَإِنَّ كُلَّ ذِي نِعْمَةٍ مَحْسُودٌ

(Earn help for fulfilling needs by being discrete, for every owner of a blessing is envied.)