12:92

قَالَ لَا تَثۡرِيبَ عَلَيۡكُمُ ٱلۡيَوۡمَۖ يَغۡفِرُ ٱللَّهُ لَكُمۡۖ وَهُوَ أَرۡحَمُ ٱلرَّـٰحِمِينَ

Qala la tathreeba AAalaykumu alyawma yaghfiru Allahu lakum wahuwa arhamu alrrahimeena

He said, "No blame will there be upon you today. Allah will forgive you; and He is the most merciful of the merciful."

Word by word
  1. قَالَHe said
  2. لَاNo
  3. تَثۡرِيبَblame
  4. عَلَيۡكُمُupon you
  5. ٱلۡيَوۡمَۖtoday
  6. يَغۡفِرُAllah will forgive
  7. ٱللَّهُAllah will forgive
  8. لَكُمۡۖyou
  9. وَهُوَand He
  10. أَرۡحَمُ(is) the Most Merciful
  11. ٱلرَّـٰحِمِينَ(of) those who show mercy
Yusuf · 12:92Makkah

No blame on you today; may Allah forgive you.

Forgiveness from the one who had the power to punish


Yusuf's answer
no blamenot today, not later
and
a dua for themmay Allah forgive you
Most Mercifulof all who show mercy
What he did with power
settle the scorehe had every right
forgive and prayand never mention it again

Yusuf had the throne, the grain and the power. He said: no blame on you today. Ibn Kathir says he meant: I will not reproach you, and I will not remind you of it after today. Then he went further and prayed for their forgiveness.

The family member who finally apologizes for years of hurt. You have the moment to make them squirm. Or you can say: it is done, I will not bring it up again, may Allah forgive you.

Forgiving means I still get to remind them now and then.

Real forgiveness closes the file and prays for the other person.

Try this

Pick one old hurt and decide today you will not bring it up again.

Simplified reflection. Read the tafsir for scholarship.draft
Tafsir Ibn Kathir (shared passage from 12:89)

He said: "Do you know what you did with Yusuf and his brother, when you were ignorant? (89)They said: "Are you indeed Yusuf?" He said: "I am Yusuf , and this is my brother. Allah has indeed been gracious to us. He who has Taqwa, and is patient, then surely, Allah makes not the reward of the gooddoers to be lost. (90)They said: "By Allah! Indeed Allah has preferred you above us, and we certainly have been sinners. (91)He said: "No reproach on you this day; may Allah forgive you, and He is the Most Merciful of those who show mercy (92)

Yusuf reveals His True Identity to His Brothers and forgives Them

Allah says, when Yusuf's brothers told him about the afflictions and hardship, and shortages in food they suffered from in the aftermath of the drought that struck them, and he remembered his father's grief for losing his two children, he felt compassion, pity and mercy for his father and brothers. He felt this way, especially since he was enjoying kingship, authority and power, so he cried and revealed his true identity to them when he asked them,

هَلْ عَلِمْتُم مَّا فَعَلْتُم بِيُوسُفَ وَأَخِيهِ إِذْ أَنتُمْ جَاهِلُونَ

(Do you know what you did with Yusuf and his brother, when you were ignorant?) meaning, 'when you separated between Yusuf and his brother,'

إِذْ أَنتُمْ جَاهِلُونَ

(when you were ignorant?) He said, 'What made you do this is your ignorance of the tremendous sin you were about to commit.' It appears, and Allah knows best, that Yusuf revealed his identity to his brothers only then by Allah's command, just as he hid his identity from them in the first two meetings, by Allah's command. When the affliction became harder, Allah sent His relief from that affliction, just as He said He does,

فَإِنَّ مَعَ الْعُسْرِ يُسْرًا - إِنَّ مَعَ الْعُسْرِ يُسْرًا

(Verily, along with every hardship is relief. Verily, along with every hardship is relief.)[94:5-6] This is when they said to Yusuf,

أَإِنَّكَ لَأَنتَ يُوسُفُ

(Are you indeed Yusuf?), in amazement, because they had been meeting him for more than two years while unaware of who he really was. Yet, he knew who they were and hid this news from them. Therefore, they asked in astonishment,

أَإِنَّكَ لَأَنتَ يُوسُفُ ۖ قَالَ أَنَا يُوسُفُ وَهَٰذَا أَخِي

(Are you indeed Yusuf? He said: "I am Yusuf, and this is my brother...") Yusuf said next,

قَدْ مَنَّ اللَّهُ عَلَيْنَا

(Allah has indeed been gracious to us.) by gathering us together after being separated all this time,'

إِنَّهُ مَن يَتَّقِ وَيَصْبِرْ فَإِنَّ اللَّهَ لَا يُضِيعُ أَجْرَ الْمُحْسِنِينَ - قَالُوا تَاللَّهِ لَقَدْ آثَرَكَ اللَّهُ عَلَيْنَا

("Verily, he who has Taqwa, and is patient, then surely, Allah makes not the reward of the gooddoers to be lost." They said: "By Allah! Indeed Allah has preferred you above us.") They affirmed Yusuf's virtue above them, being blessed with beauty, conduct, richness, kingship, authority and, above all, prophethood. They admitted their error and acknowledged that they made a mistake against him,

قَالَ لَا تَثْرِيبَ عَلَيْكُمُ الْيَوْمَ

(He said: "No reproach on you this day.") He said to them, 'There will be no blame for you today or admonishment, and I will not remind you after today of your error against me.' He then multiplied his generosity by invoking Allah for them for mercy,

يَغْفِرُ اللَّهُ لَكُمْ ۖ وَهُوَ أَرْحَمُ الرَّاحِمِينَ

(may Allah forgive you, and He is the Most Merciful of those who show mercy!)