Walk behind your family, and do not look back.
Leaving at night, with eyes forward
The angels told Lut to leave in part of the night and walk behind his family to protect them. Ibn Kathir says the Messenger of Allah ﷺ would walk in the rear of the army to help the weak. And no one was to turn back toward the town.
The family is moving cities, or leaving a bad situation. You are the one who makes sure the youngest is not left behind, and you stop scrolling the old life's photos. Protect the people with you. Keep walking.
A leader goes first and gets out first.
The one in charge walks at the back, guarding the weak, and keeps eyes forward.
Today, be the last one to leave a gathering, making sure everyone is home or helped.