4:36

۞وَٱعۡبُدُواْ ٱللَّهَ وَلَا تُشۡرِكُواْ بِهِۦ شَيۡـٔٗاۖ وَبِٱلۡوَٰلِدَيۡنِ إِحۡسَٰنٗا وَبِذِي ٱلۡقُرۡبَىٰ وَٱلۡيَتَٰمَىٰ وَٱلۡمَسَٰكِينِ وَٱلۡجَارِ ذِي ٱلۡقُرۡبَىٰ وَٱلۡجَارِ ٱلۡجُنُبِ وَٱلصَّاحِبِ بِٱلۡجَنۢبِ وَٱبۡنِ ٱلسَّبِيلِ وَمَا مَلَكَتۡ أَيۡمَٰنُكُمۡۗ إِنَّ ٱللَّهَ لَا يُحِبُّ مَن كَانَ مُخۡتَالٗا فَخُورًا

WaoAAbudoo Allaha wala tushrikoo bihi shayan wabialwalidayni ihsanan wabithee alqurba waalyatama waalmasakeeni waaljari thee alqurba waaljari aljunubi waalssahibi bialjanbi waibni alssabeeli wama malakat aymanukum inna Allaha la yuhibbu man kana mukhtalan fakhooran

Worship Allah and associate nothing with Him, and to parents do good, and to relatives, orphans, the needy, the near neighbor, the neighbor farther away, the companion at your side, the traveler, and those whom your right hands possess. Indeed, Allah does not like those who are self-deluding and boastful.

Word by word
  1. ۞وَٱعۡبُدُواْAnd worship
  2. ٱللَّهَAllah
  3. وَلَاAnd (do) not
  4. تُشۡرِكُواْassociate
  5. بِهِۦwith Him
  6. شَيۡـٔٗاۖanything
  7. وَبِٱلۡوَٰلِدَيۡنِand to the parents
  8. إِحۡسَٰنٗا(do) good
  9. وَبِذِيand with
  10. ٱلۡقُرۡبَىٰthe relatives
  11. وَٱلۡيَتَٰمَىٰand the orphans
  12. وَٱلۡمَسَٰكِينِand the needy
  13. وَٱلۡجَارِand the neighbor
  14. ذِي(who is)
  15. ٱلۡقُرۡبَىٰnear
  16. وَٱلۡجَارِand the neighbor
  17. ٱلۡجُنُبِ(who is) farther away
  18. وَٱلصَّاحِبِand the companion
  19. بِٱلۡجَنۢبِby your side
  20. وَٱبۡنِand the
  21. ٱلسَّبِيلِtraveler
  22. وَمَاand what
  23. مَلَكَتۡpossess [ed]
  24. أَيۡمَٰنُكُمۡۗyour right hands
  25. إِنَّIndeed
  26. ٱللَّهَAllah
  27. لَا(does) not
  28. يُحِبُّlove
  29. مَن(the one) who
  30. كَانَis
  31. مُخۡتَالٗا[a] proud
  32. فَخُورًا(and) [a] boastful
An-Nisa · 4:36Madinah

Worship Allah alone, then widen the circle of kindness.

From parents to the stranger beside you


The circle
Allah alonethe center
parents, relativesorphans, the needy
neighbors near and farthe companion beside you
the traveler, those serving youthe weakest too
What blocks kindness
pride and boastingAllah does not love it
versus
excellence to allnear and far

The verse ties worship of Allah directly to doing good to a long line of people, from parents to servants. The Prophet ﷺ said Jibril kept urging me about the neighbor until I thought he would make him an heir. In his final illness, he kept repeating: the prayer, the prayer, and those under your care.

The neighbor whose name you never learned. The coworker on the next desk. The delivery rider at your door. It is easy to be warm to family and invisible to everyone else. The verse draws them all into your worship.

My religious duty is to Allah and my family. Everyone else is extra.

Worshiping Allah includes being good to the neighbor, the stranger, and the one serving me.

Try this

Take a small gift or plate of food to the neighbor whose door is closest to yours.

Simplified reflection. Read the tafsir for scholarship.draft
Tafsir Ibn Kathir

Worship Allah and join none with Him in worship, and do good to parents, kinsfolk, orphans, the poor, the neighbor who is near of kin, the neighbor who is a stranger, the companion by your side, the wayfarer (you meet), and those (slaves) whom your right hands possess. Verily, Allah does not like such as are proud and boastful (36)

The Order to Worship Allah Alone and to Be Dutiful to Parents

Allah orders that He be worshipped Alone without partners, because He Alone is the Creator and Sustainer Who sends His favors and bounties on His creation in all situations and instances. Therefore He deserves to be singled out, without associating anything or anyone from His creation with Him in worship. Indeed, the Prophet ﷺ said to Mu'adh,

أَتَدْرِي مَا حَقُّ اللهِ عَلَى الْعِبَادِ؟

(Do you know what Allah's right on His servants is?) Mu'adh replied, "Allah and His Messenger know better." He said,

أنْ يَعْبُدُوهُ وَلَا يُشْرِكُوا بِهِ شَيْئًا

(That they should worship Him and should not worship any others with Him.) The Prophet ﷺ then said,

أَتَدْرِي مَا حَقُّ الْعِبَادِ عَلَى اللهِ إِذَا فَعَلُوا ذَلِكَ؟ أَنْ لَا يُعَذِّبَهُم

(Do you know what the right of the servants on Allah is if they do this? He should not punish them.)

Allah then commands the servants to be dutiful to their parents, for Allah made parents the reason for the servants to come to existence, after they did not exist. Allah joins the order to worship Him with being dutiful to parents in many places. For example, He said,

أَنِ اشْكُرْ لِي وَلِوَالِدَيْكَ

(give thanks to Me and to your parents)[31:14], and,

وَقَضَىٰ رَبُّكَ أَلَّا تَعْبُدُوا إِلَّا إِيَّاهُ وَبِالْوَالِدَيْنِ إِحْسَانًا

(And your Lord has decreed that you worship none but Him. And that you be dutiful to your parents). [17:23]

After Allah ordained being dutiful to parents, He ordained kind treatment of relatives, males and females. A Hadith states,

الصَّدَقَةُ عَلَى الْمِسْكِينِ صَدَقَةٌ، وَعَلى ذِي الرَّحِمِ صَدَقَةٌ وَصِلَةٌ

(Charity given to the poor is Sadaqah, while charity given to relatives is both Sadaqah and Silah (keeping the relations).) Allah then said,

وَالْيَتَامَىٰ 

(orphans), because they lost their caretakers who would spend on them. So Allah commands that the orphans be treated with kindness and compassion. Allah then said,

وَالْمَسَاكِينِ 

(Al-Masakin (the poor)) who have various needs and cannot find what sustains these needs. Therefore, Allah commands they should be helped in acquiring their needs in a sufficient manner that will end their inadequacy. We will further elaborate on the matter of the destitute and the poor in Surah Bara'h (9:60).

The Right of the Neighbor

Allah said,

 وَالْجَارِ ذِي الْقُرْبَىٰ وَالْجَارِ الْجُنُبِ

(the neighbor who is near of kin, the neighbor who is a stranger) 'Ali bin Abi Talhah said that Ibn 'Abbas said that,

وَالْجَارِ ذِي الْقُرْبَىٰ 

(the neighbor who is near of kin) means, "The neighbor who is also a relative", while,

وَالْجَارِ الْجُنُبِ

(The neighbor who is a stranger) means, "Who is not a relative." It was also reported that 'Ikrimah, Mujahid, Maymun bin Mihran, Ad-Dahhak, Zayd bin Aslam, Muqatil bin Hayyan and Qatadah said similarly. Mujahid was also reported to have said that Allah's statement,

وَالْجَارِ الْجُنُبِ

(the neighbor who is a stranger) means, "The companion during travel." There are many Hadiths that command kind treatment to the neighbors, and we will mention some of them here with Allah's help.

The First Hadith

Imam Ahmad recorded that 'Abdullah bin 'Umar said that the Messenger of Allah ﷺ said,

مَازَالَ جِبْرِيلُ يُوصِينِي بِالْجَارِ حَتَّى ظَنَنْتُ أَنَّهُ سَيُوَرِّثُهُ

(Jibril kept reminding of the neighbor's right, until I thought that he was going to give him a share of the inheritance.) The Two Sahihs recorded this Hadith.

The Second Hadith

Imam Ahmad recorded that 'Abdullah bin 'Amr said that the Messenger of Allah ﷺ said,

مَازَالَ جِبْرِيلُ يُوصِينِي بِالْجَارِ حَتَّى ظَنَنْتُ أَنَّهُ سَيُوَرِّثُهُ

(Jibril kept reminding me of the neighbor's right, until I thought he was going to appoint a share of the inheritance for him.) Abu Dawud and At-Tirmidhi recorded this Hadith, which At-Tirmidhi said was "Hasan Gharib through this route."

The Third Hadith

Imam Ahmad recorded that 'Abdullah bin 'Amr bin Al-'As said that the Prophet ﷺ said,

خَيْرُ الْأَصْحَابِ عِنْدَ اللهِ خَيْرُهُمْ لِصَاحِبِهِ، وَخَيْرُ الْجِيرَانِ عِنْدَ اللهِ خَيْرُهُمْ لِجَارِهِ

(The best companions according to Allah are those who are the best with their friends, and the best neighbors according to Allah are the best with their neighbors.) At-Tirmidhi recorded this Hadith and said, "Hasan Gharib".

The Fourth Hadith

Imam Ahmad recorded that Al-Miqdad bin Al-Aswad said that the Messenger of Allah ﷺ asked his Companions,

مَا تَقُولُونَ فِي الزِّنَا؟

(What do you say about adultery?) They said, "It is prohibited, for Allah and His Messenger have prohibited it. So it is forbidden until the Day of Resurrection." The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said,

لَأَنْ يَزْنِيَ الرَّجُلُ بِعَشْرِ نِسْوَةٍ، أَيْسَرُ عَلَيْهِ مِنْ أَنْ يَزْنِيَ بِامْرَأَةِ جَارِهِ

(For a man to commit adultery with his neighbor's wife is worse than if he commits adultery with ten women.) He then said,

مَا تَقُولُونَ فِي السَّرِقَةِ؟

(What do you say about theft?) They said, "It is prohibited, for Allah and His Messenger prohibited it." He said,

لَأَنْ يَسْرِقَ الرَّجُلُ مِنْ عَشْرَةِ أَبْيَاتٍ، أَيْسَرُ عَلَيْهِ مِنْ أَنْ يَسْرِقَ مِنْ جَارِهِ

(If a man steals from his neighbor, it is worse for him than stealing from ten homes.) Only Ahmad recorded this Hadith.

A similar Hadith is recorded in the Two Sahihs, Ibn Mas'ud said, "I asked, 'O Allah's Messenger! What is the greatest sin?' He said,

أَنْ تَجْعَلَ للهِ نِدًّا وَهُوَ خَلَقَكَ

(To make a rival for Allah while He Alone created you.) I said, 'Then?' He said,

أَنْ تَقْتُلَ وَلَدَكَ خَشْيَةَ أَنْ يَطْعَمَ مَعَكَ

(To kill your offspring for fear that he might share your food with you.) I said, 'Then' He said,

أَنْ تُزَانِيَ حَلِيلَةَ جَارِكَ

(To commit adultery with your neighbor's wife.)"

The Fifth Hadith

Imam Ahmad recorded that 'A'ishah asked the Messenger of Allah, "I have two neighbors, so whom among them should I give my gift?" He said,

إِلى أَقْرَبِهِمَا مِنْكِ بَابًا

(The neighbor whose door is the closest to you.) Al-Bukhari narrated this Hadith We will elaborate on this subject in the Tafsir of Surah Bara'h, Allah willing and upon Him we depend.

Being Kind to Slaves and Servants

Allah said,

وَمَا مَلَكَتْ أَيْمَانُكُمْ

(and those (slaves) whom your right hands possess,) this is an order to be kind to them because they are weak, being held as captives by others.

An authentic Hadith records that during the illness that preceded his death, the Messenger of Allah ﷺ continued advising his Ummah:

الصَّلَاةَ الصَّلَاةَ، وَمَا مَلَكَتْ أَيْمَانُكُم

((Protect) the prayer, (protect) the prayer, and (those slaves) whom your hands possess.) He was repeating it until his tongue was still.

Imam Ahmad recorded that Al-Miqdam bin Ma'dykarib said that the Messenger of Allah ﷺ said,

مَا أَطْعَمْتَ نَفْسَكَ فَهُوَ لَكَ صَدَقَةٌ، وَمَا أَطْعَمْتَ وَلَدَكَ فَهُوَ لَكَ صَدَقَةٌ، وَمَا أَطْعَمْتَ زَوْجَتَكَ فَهُوَ لَكَ صَدَقَةٌ، وَمَا أَطْعَمْتَ خَادِمَكَ فَهُوَ لَكَ صَدَقَةٌ

(What you feed yourself is a Sadaqah (charity) for you, what you feed your children is Sadaqah for you, what you feed your wife is Sadaqah for you and what you feed your servant is Sadaqah for you.) An-Nasa'i recorded this Hadith which has an authentic chain of narration, all the thanks are due to Allah.

Abdullah bin 'Amr said to a caretaker of his, "Did you give the slaves their food yet?" He said, "No." Ibn 'Amr said, "Go and give it to them, for the Messenger of Allah ﷺ said,

كَفَى بِالْمَرْءِ إِثْمًا أَنْ يَحْبِسَ عَمَّنْ يَمْلِكُ قُوتَهُم

(It is enough sin for someone to prevent whomever he is responsible for from getting their food.)" Muslim recorded this Hadith. Abu Hurayrah narrated that the Prophet ﷺ said,

لِلْمَمْلُوكِ طَعَامُهُ وَكِسْوَتُهُ، وَلَا يُكَلَّفُ مِنَ الْعَمَلِ إِلَّا مَا يُطِيقُ

(The slave has the right to have food, clothing and to only be required to perform what he can bear of work.) Muslim also recorded this Hadith. Abu Hurayrah narrated that the Prophet ﷺ said,

إِذَا أَتَى أَحَدَكُمْ خَادِمُهُ بِطَعَامِه، فَإِنْ لَمْ يُجْلِسْهُ مَعَهُ فَلْيُنَاوِلْهُ لُقْمَةً أَوْ لُقْمَتَيْنِ - أَوْ أُكْلَةً أَوْ أُكْلتَيْنِ - فَإِنَّهُ وَلِيَ حَرَّهُ وَعِلَاجَهُ

(When your servant brings meals to one of you, if he does not let him sit and share the meal, then he should at least give him a mouthful or two mouthfuls of that meal or a meal or two, for he has prepared it.) This is the wording collected by Al-Bukhari.

Allah Does Not Like the Arrogant

Allah said,

إِنَّ اللَّهَ لَا يُحِبُّ مَن كَانَ مُخْتَالًا فَخُورًا

(Verily, Allah does not like such as are proud and boastful.) meaning, one who is proud and arrogant, insolent and boasts to others. He thinks that he is better than other people, thus thinking high of himself, even though he is insignificant to Allah and hated by people. Mujahid said that Allah's statement,

إِنَّ اللَّهَ لَا يُحِبُّ مَن كَانَ مُخْتَالًا فَخُورًا

(Verily, Allah does not like such as are proud) means arrogant, while,

فَخُورًا

(boastful) means boasting about what he has, while he does not thank Allah. This Ayah indicates that such a person boasts with people about the bounty that Allah has given him, but he is actually ungrateful to Allah for this bounty.

Ibn Jarir recorded that 'Abdullah bin Waqid Abu Raja' Al-Harawi said, "You will find that those who are mean are also proud and boasting. He then recited,

 وَمَا مَلَكَتْ أَيْمَانُكُمْ

(and those (slaves) whom your right hands possess,) You will find that he who is undutiful (to parents) is also arrogant, and deprived. He then recited,

وَبَرًّا بِوَالِدَتِي وَلَمْ يَجْعَلْنِي جَبَّارًا شَقِيًّا

(And dutiful to my mother, and made me not arrogant, deprived.)[19:32] Once a man asked the Prophet, "O Messenger of Allah, advise me.' The Prophet ﷺ said,

إيَّاكَ وَإِسْبَالَ الْإِزَارِ، فَإِنَّ إِسْبَالَ الْإِزَارِ مِنَ الْمَخِيلَةِ، وَإِنَّ اللهَ لَا يُحِبُّ الْمَخِيلَةَ

(Avoid lengthening the dress (below the ankles), for this practice is from arrogance. Verily, Allah does not like arrogance.)"