24:12

لَّوۡلَآ إِذۡ سَمِعۡتُمُوهُ ظَنَّ ٱلۡمُؤۡمِنُونَ وَٱلۡمُؤۡمِنَٰتُ بِأَنفُسِهِمۡ خَيۡرٗا وَقَالُواْ هَٰذَآ إِفۡكٞ مُّبِينٞ

Lawla ith samiAAtumoohu thanna almuminoona waalmuminatu bianfusihim khayran waqaloo hatha ifkun mubeenun

Why, when you heard it, did not the believing men and believing women think good of one another and say, "This is an obvious falsehood"?

Word by word
  1. لَّوۡلَآWhy not
  2. إِذۡwhen
  3. سَمِعۡتُمُوهُyou heard it
  4. ظَنَّthink
  5. ٱلۡمُؤۡمِنُونَthe believing men
  6. وَٱلۡمُؤۡمِنَٰتُand the believing women
  7. بِأَنفُسِهِمۡgood of themselves
  8. خَيۡرٗاgood of themselves
  9. وَقَالُواْand say
  10. هَٰذَآThis
  11. إِفۡكٞ(is) a lie
  12. مُّبِينٞclear
An-Nur · 24:12Madinah

Why did you not think good of your own?

The first reaction a believer owes a rumor


What Abu Ayyub did
Umm Ayyubdid you hear?
Abu Ayyubit is all lies
asks
would you do it?no, by Allah
then neither would sheshe is better than you
The first move
maybe it is truelet us talk about it
think good, say itthis is an obvious lie

Ibn Kathir reports that Umm Ayyub asked her husband about the talk. Abu Ayyub said it was lies, and asked if she would ever do such a thing. She said no. He said Aishah was better than her. The verse also notes she arrived openly at midday with the whole army watching.

A message lands in the family group: "Did you hear about her?" Your thumb hovers. Before replying, do what Abu Ayyub did. Would I do that? Then why assume they did? Thinking good happens in the heart. Saying "this is a lie" happens on your phone.

I am not judging, I am just asking if it is true.

A believer's first move is to think good of their own and say so.

Try this

Next time you hear something bad about someone, say one good thing you know about them instead.

Simplified reflection. Read the tafsir for scholarship.draft
Tafsir Ibn Kathir

Why then, did not the believers, men and women, when you heard it, think good of their own people and say: "This is an obvious lie? (12)Why did they not produce four witnesses against him? Since they have not produced witnesses! Then with Allah, they are the liars (13)

Disciplining the Believers for Spreading the Slander

Here Allah disciplines the believers with regard to the matter of 'A'ishah, because some of them spread this evil talk and the slander that had been mentioned. So Allah says:

لَّوْلَا إِذْ سَمِعْتُمُوهُ

(Why then, when you heard it,) meaning, the talk which accused the Mother of the believers, may Allah be pleased with her,

ظَنَّ الْمُؤْمِنُونَ وَالْمُؤْمِنَاتُ بِأَنفُسِهِمْ خَيْرًا 

(the believers, men and women, think good of their own people) means, why did they not compare what was said to themselves – if it was not befitting for them then it was even less appropriate for the Mother of the believers, and she was more likely to be innocent. Or it was said that this was revealed about Abu Ayyub Khalid bin Zayd Al-Ansari and his wife, may Allah be pleased with them. Imam Muhammad bin Ishaq bin Yasar narrated, "The wife of Abu Ayyub Khalid bin Zayd Al-Ansari, Umm Ayyub, said to him, 'O Abu Ayyub, have you heard what the people are saying about 'A'ishah?' He said, 'Yes, and it is all lies. Would you do that, O Umm Ayyub?' She said, 'No, by Allah, I would not do that.' He said, 'And by Allah, 'A'ishah is better than you.' When the Qur'an was revealed, Allah mentioned those who spoke about the evil deed among the people of the slander,

إِنَّ الَّذِينَ جَاءُوا بِالْإِفْكِ عُصْبَةٌ مِّنكُمْ

(Verily, those who brought forth the slander are a group among you.)(24:11) This refers to Hassan and his companions who said what they said. Then Allah said,

لَّوْلَا إِذْ سَمِعْتُمُوهُ ظَنَّ الْمُؤْمِنُونَ

(Why then, did not the believers, men, when you heard it, think...) means, as Abu Ayyub and his wife did." Allah's saying:

ظَنَّ الْمُؤْمِنُونَ

(the believers, men think...) meaning, 'why did they not think good, because the Mother of the believers is his wife and is closer to him.' This is concerned with innermost feelings;

وَقَالُوا

(and say:) means, with their tongues, verbally,

هَٰذَا إِفْكٌ مُّبِينٌ

("This (charge) is an obvious lie?") means, a clear untruth told about the Mother of the believers, may Allah be pleased with her. What happened should not have been the cause of suspicion. The fact that the Mother of the believers came openly, riding on the camel of Safwan bin Al-Mu'attal at midday, with the entire army watching and the Messenger of Allah ﷺ among them, should have made it clear that there was no cause for suspicion. If there had been anything suspicious about the matter, they would not have come openly in this manner in front of so many witnesses; they would have come secretly. On this basis, what the people of the slander said accusing the Mother of the believers was an utter lie, false speech and evil foolish talk, by which people who indulged in it lost out. Allah said:

لَّوْلَا جَاءُوا عَلَيْهِ بِأَرْبَعَةِ شُهَدَاءَ

(Why did they not produce four witnesses against him?) meaning, to prove that what they were saying was true.

فَإِذْ لَمْ يَأْتُوا بِالشُّهَدَاءِ فَأُولَٰئِكَ عِندَ اللَّهِ هُمُ الْكَاذِبُونَ

(Since they have not produced witnesses! Then with Allah they are the liars.)Allah has ruled that they are indeed wicked liars.