9:86

وَإِذَآ أُنزِلَتۡ سُورَةٌ أَنۡ ءَامِنُواْ بِٱللَّهِ وَجَٰهِدُواْ مَعَ رَسُولِهِ ٱسۡتَـٔۡذَنَكَ أُوْلُواْ ٱلطَّوۡلِ مِنۡهُمۡ وَقَالُواْ ذَرۡنَا نَكُن مَّعَ ٱلۡقَٰعِدِينَ

Waitha onzilat sooratun an aminoo biAllahi wajahidoo maAAa rasoolihi istathanaka oloo alttawli minhum waqaloo tharna nakun maAAa alqaAAideena

And when a surah was revealed [enjoining them] to believe in Allah and to fight with His Messenger, those of wealth among them asked your permission [to stay back] and said, "Leave us to be with them who sit [at home]."

Word by word
  1. وَإِذَآAnd when
  2. أُنزِلَتۡwas revealed
  3. سُورَةٌa Surah
  4. أَنۡthat
  5. ءَامِنُواْbelieve
  6. بِٱللَّهِin Allah
  7. وَجَٰهِدُواْand strive
  8. مَعَwith
  9. رَسُولِهِHis Messenger
  10. ٱسۡتَـٔۡذَنَكَask your permission
  11. أُوْلُواْ(the) men
  12. ٱلطَّوۡلِ(of) wealth
  13. مِنۡهُمۡamong them
  14. وَقَالُواْand said
  15. ذَرۡنَاLeave us
  16. نَكُن(to) be
  17. مَّعَwith
  18. ٱلۡقَٰعِدِينَthose who sit
At-Tawbah · 9:86Madinah

Those with the most means asked to stay home.

Having the ability and asking to be excused


Who asked to stay
the callbelieve and go out
answered by
the wealthysupplies, means, ability
asking
"leave us"with those who sit
What was missing
they could notno means
they would notmeans, but no will

Ibn Kathir says Allah rebuked those who stayed back even though they had the supplies, means and ability. They said: leave us with those who sit. He adds that such people are boastful when it is safe and fearful when it is hard.

You have the car, the free evening, the skills. Your elderly neighbor needs a lift to the clinic, and you find a reason to say no. The verse is not about those who cannot. It is about those who can and do not.

I am excused because I am busy too.

When I have the means, my excuse needs to be honest.

Try this

Use one thing you have plenty of today, time, a car, a skill, to help someone.

Simplified reflection. Read the tafsir for scholarship.draft
Tafsir Ibn Kathir

And when a Surah is revealed, enjoining them to believe in Allah and to strive hard and fight along with His Messenger, the wealthy among them ask your leave to exempt them and say, "Leave us (behind), we would be with those who sit (at home). (86)They are content to be with those who sit behind. Their hearts are sealed up, so they understand not (87)

Admonishing Those Who did not join the Jihad

Allah chastises and admonishes those who stayed away from Jihad and refrained from performing it, even though they had the supplies, means and ability to join it. They asked the Messenger ﷺ for permission to stay behind, saying,

ذَرْنَا نَكُن مَّعَ الْقَاعِدِينَ

("Leave us (behind), we would be with those who sit (at home)") thus accepting for themselves the shame of lagging behind with women, after the army had left. If war starts, such people are the most cowardice, but when it is safe, they are the most boastful among men. Allah described them in another Ayah,

فَإِذَا جَاءَ الْخَوْفُ رَأَيْتَهُمْ يَنظُرُونَ إِلَيْكَ تَدُورُ أَعْيُنُهُمْ كَالَّذِي يُغْشَىٰ عَلَيْهِ مِنَ الْمَوْتِ ۖ فَإِذَا ذَهَبَ الْخَوْفُ سَلَقُوكُم بِأَلْسِنَةٍ حِدَادٍ

(Then when fear comes, you will see them looking to you, their eyes revolving like (those of) one over whom hovers death; but when the fear departs, they will smite you with sharp tongues.)[33:19] their tongues direct their harsh words against you, when it is safe to do so. In battle, however, they are the most cowardice among men. Allah said in another Ayah,

وَيَقُولُ الَّذِينَ آمَنُوا لَوْلَا نُزِّلَتْ سُورَةٌ ۖ فَإِذَا أُنزِلَتْ سُورَةٌ مُّحْكَمَةٌ وَذُكِرَ فِيهَا الْقِتَالُ ۙ رَأَيْتَ الَّذِينَ فِي قُلُوبِهِم مَّرَضٌ يَنظُرُونَ إِلَيْكَ نَظَرَ الْمَغْشِيِّ عَلَيْهِ مِنَ الْمَوْتِ ۖ فَأَوْلَىٰ لَهُمْ - طَاعَةٌ وَقَوْلٌ مَّعْرُوفٌ ۚ فَإِذَا عَزَمَ الْأَمْرُ فَلَوْ صَدَقُوا اللَّهَ لَكَانَ خَيْرًا لَّهُمْ

(Those who believe say: "Why is not a Surah sent down (for us)? But when a decisive Surah (explaining and ordering things) is sent down, and fighting is mentioned therein, you will see those in whose hearts is a disease looking at you with a look of one fainting to death. But it was better for them. Obedience (to Allah) and good words (were better for them). And when the matter is resolved on, then if they had been true to Allah, it would have been better for them.)[47:20-21]

Allah said next,

وَطُبِعَ عَلَىٰ قُلُوبِهِمْ

(Their hearts are sealed up) because of their staying away from Jihad and from accompanying the Messenger ﷺ in Allah's cause,

فَهُمْ لَا يَفْقَهُونَ

(so they understand not.) they neither understand what benefits them so that they perform it nor what hurts them so that they avoid it.