41:49

لَّا يَسۡـَٔمُ ٱلۡإِنسَٰنُ مِن دُعَآءِ ٱلۡخَيۡرِ وَإِن مَّسَّهُ ٱلشَّرُّ فَيَـُٔوسٞ قَنُوطٞ

La yasamu alinsanu min duAAai alkhayri wain massahu alshsharru fayaoosun qanootun

Man is not weary of supplication for good [things], but if evil touches him, he is hopeless and despairing.

Word by word
  1. لَّا(Does) not
  2. يَسۡـَٔمُget tired
  3. ٱلۡإِنسَٰنُman
  4. مِنof
  5. دُعَآءِpraying
  6. ٱلۡخَيۡرِ(for) the good
  7. وَإِنbut if
  8. مَّسَّهُtouches him
  9. ٱلشَّرُّthe evil
  10. فَيَـُٔوسٞthen he gives up hope
  11. قَنُوطٞ(and) despairs
Fussilat · 41:49Makkah

Never tired of asking, quick to lose hope.

How we swing between wanting and despair


The human swing
asking for goodwealth, health, never tired
then hardship
despairnothing good will come again
After hardship
it is overnever good again
keep askingHe has not changed

Ibn Kathir says man never gets bored of asking for good things like wealth and health, but when trial or poverty touches him, he thinks he will never experience anything good again. The verse describes a pattern, not one person.

Your duas are long when you want a promotion. Then the rejection email arrives, and you close the prayer mat for a month. One hard week and you decide nothing will ever go right.

When something goes wrong, it proves nothing good is coming.

Hardship is not the end of good. The same Lord I asked yesterday is there today.

Try this

If something has gone wrong this week, make one dua for good anyway, today.

Simplified reflection. Read the tafsir for scholarship.draft
Tafsir Ibn Kathir

Man does not get tired of asking for good; but if an evil touches him, then he gives up all hope and is lost in despair (49)And truly, if We give him a taste of mercy from Us, after some adversity has touched him, he is sure to say: "This is due to my (merit); I think not that the Hour will be established. But if I am brought back to my Lord, surely there will be for me the best with Him. "Then, We verily will show to the disbelievers what they have done, and We shall make them taste a severe torment (50)And when We show favor to man, he turns away and becomes arrogant; but when evil touches him, then he has recourse to long supplications (51)

Man is fickle when Ease comes to Him after Difficulty

Allah tells us that man never gets bored of asking his Lord for good things, such as wealth, physical health, etc., but if evil touches him – i.e., trials and difficulties or poverty –

فَيَئُوسٌ قَنُوطٌ 

(then he gives up all hope and is lost in despair.), i.e., he thinks that he will never experience anything good again.

وَلَئِنْ أَذَقْنَاهُ رَحْمَةً مِنَّا مِنْ بَعْدِ ضَرَّاءَ مَسَّتْهُ لَيَقُولَنَّ هَٰذَا لِي

(And truly, if We give him a taste of mercy from Us, after some adversity has touched him, he is sure to say: "This is due to my (merit)...") means, if something good happens to him or some provision comes to him after a period of difficulty, he says, 'this is because of me, because I deserve this from my Lord.'

 وَمَا أَظُنُّ السَّاعَةَ قَائِمَةً

(I think not that the Hour will be established.) means, he does not believe that the Hour will come. So when he is given some blessing, he becomes careless, arrogant and ungrateful, as Allah says:

كَلَّا إِنَّ الْإِنْسَانَ لَيَطْغَىٰ - أَنْ رَآهُ اسْتَغْنَىٰ

(Nay! Verily, man does transgress. Because he considers himself self-sufficient.)(96:6-7)

وَلَئِنْ رُجِعْتُ إِلَىٰ رَبِّي إِنَّ لِي عِنْدَهُ لَلْحُسْنَىٰ

(But if I am brought back to my Lord, surely there will be for me the best with Him.) means, 'if there is a Hereafter after all, then my Lord will be generous and kind to me just as He was in this world.' So he expects Allah to do him favors in spite of his bad deeds and lack of certain faith. Allah says:

فَلَنُنَبِّئَنَّ الَّذِينَ كَفَرُوا بِمَا عَمِلُوا وَلَنُذِيقَنَّهُمْ مِنْ عَذَابٍ غَلِيظٍ

(Then, We verily will show to the disbelievers what they have done, and We shall make them taste a severe torment.) Thus Allah threatens punishment and vengeance to those whose conduct and belief is like that.

وَإِذَا أَنْعَمْنَا عَلَى الْإِنْسَانِ أَعْرَضَ وَنَأَىٰ بِجَانِبِهِ

(And when We show favor to man, he turns away and becomes arrogant;) means, he turns away from doing acts of obedience and is too proud to obey the commands of Allah. This is like the Ayah:

فَتَوَلَّىٰ بِرُكْنِهِ

(But [Fir'awn] turned away along with his hosts)(51:39).

وَإِذَا مَسَّهُ الشَّرُّ

(but when evil touches him,) means, difficulties,

فَذُو دُعَاءٍ عَرِيضٍ

(then he has recourse to long supplications.) means, he asks at length for one thing. Long supplications are those which are long on words and short on meaning. The opposite is concise speech which is brief but full of meaning. And Allah says:

وَإِذَا مَسَّ الْإِنْسَانَ الضُّرُّ دَعَانَا لِجَنْبِهِ أَوْ قَاعِدًا أَوْ قَائِمًا فَلَمَّا كَشَفْنَا عَنْهُ ضُرَّهُ مَرَّ كَأَنْ لَمْ يَدْعُنَا إِلَىٰ ضُرٍّ مَسَّهُ ۚ 

(And when harm touches man, he invokes Us, lying on his side, or sitting or standing. But when We have removed his harm from him, he passes on as if he had never invoked Us for a harm that touched him!)(10:12)