41:51

وَإِذَآ أَنۡعَمۡنَا عَلَى ٱلۡإِنسَٰنِ أَعۡرَضَ وَنَـَٔا بِجَانِبِهِۦ وَإِذَا مَسَّهُ ٱلشَّرُّ فَذُو دُعَآءٍ عَرِيضٖ

Waitha anAAamna AAala alinsani aAArada wanaa bijanibihi waitha massahu alshsharru fathoo duAAain AAareedin

And when We bestow favor upon man, he turns away and distances himself; but when evil touches him, then he is full of extensive supplication.

Word by word
  1. وَإِذَآAnd when
  2. أَنۡعَمۡنَاWe bestow favor
  3. عَلَىupon
  4. ٱلۡإِنسَٰنِman
  5. أَعۡرَضَhe turns away
  6. وَنَـَٔاand distances himself
  7. بِجَانِبِهِۦand distances himself
  8. وَإِذَاbut when
  9. مَسَّهُtouches him
  10. ٱلشَّرُّthe evil
  11. فَذُوthen (he is) full
  12. دُعَآءٍ(of) supplication
  13. عَرِيضٖlengthy
Fussilat · 41:51Makkah

Blessed, he turns away; in trouble, he prays at length.

Remembering Allah only in emergencies


Two seasons
blessing
he
turns awaytoo proud to obey
hardship
he
long duasmany words, one want
When to turn to Him
only in emergencies
in ease and hardshipthe same Lord

Ibn Kathir says when given favor, man turns away from obedience and is too proud. When difficulty touches him, he makes long supplications, long on words, short on meaning. He links it to the verse of the man who prays lying, sitting and standing, then forgets once the harm is lifted.

In the hospital waiting room you pray like never before. Two weeks after the all-clear, you are back to skipping Fajr. The verse is not mocking the dua. It is asking you to keep it going.

I will turn to Allah seriously when I really need Him.

I need Him in the good days too. Remembering Him in ease keeps me close in hardship.

Try this

Make a dua of thanks today for something that is going well right now.

Simplified reflection. Read the tafsir for scholarship.draft
Tafsir Ibn Kathir (shared passage from 41:49)

Man does not get tired of asking for good; but if an evil touches him, then he gives up all hope and is lost in despair (49)And truly, if We give him a taste of mercy from Us, after some adversity has touched him, he is sure to say: "This is due to my (merit); I think not that the Hour will be established. But if I am brought back to my Lord, surely there will be for me the best with Him. "Then, We verily will show to the disbelievers what they have done, and We shall make them taste a severe torment (50)And when We show favor to man, he turns away and becomes arrogant; but when evil touches him, then he has recourse to long supplications (51)

Man is fickle when Ease comes to Him after Difficulty

Allah tells us that man never gets bored of asking his Lord for good things, such as wealth, physical health, etc., but if evil touches him – i.e., trials and difficulties or poverty –

فَيَئُوسٌ قَنُوطٌ 

(then he gives up all hope and is lost in despair.), i.e., he thinks that he will never experience anything good again.

وَلَئِنْ أَذَقْنَاهُ رَحْمَةً مِنَّا مِنْ بَعْدِ ضَرَّاءَ مَسَّتْهُ لَيَقُولَنَّ هَٰذَا لِي

(And truly, if We give him a taste of mercy from Us, after some adversity has touched him, he is sure to say: "This is due to my (merit)...") means, if something good happens to him or some provision comes to him after a period of difficulty, he says, 'this is because of me, because I deserve this from my Lord.'

 وَمَا أَظُنُّ السَّاعَةَ قَائِمَةً

(I think not that the Hour will be established.) means, he does not believe that the Hour will come. So when he is given some blessing, he becomes careless, arrogant and ungrateful, as Allah says:

كَلَّا إِنَّ الْإِنْسَانَ لَيَطْغَىٰ - أَنْ رَآهُ اسْتَغْنَىٰ

(Nay! Verily, man does transgress. Because he considers himself self-sufficient.)(96:6-7)

وَلَئِنْ رُجِعْتُ إِلَىٰ رَبِّي إِنَّ لِي عِنْدَهُ لَلْحُسْنَىٰ

(But if I am brought back to my Lord, surely there will be for me the best with Him.) means, 'if there is a Hereafter after all, then my Lord will be generous and kind to me just as He was in this world.' So he expects Allah to do him favors in spite of his bad deeds and lack of certain faith. Allah says:

فَلَنُنَبِّئَنَّ الَّذِينَ كَفَرُوا بِمَا عَمِلُوا وَلَنُذِيقَنَّهُمْ مِنْ عَذَابٍ غَلِيظٍ

(Then, We verily will show to the disbelievers what they have done, and We shall make them taste a severe torment.) Thus Allah threatens punishment and vengeance to those whose conduct and belief is like that.

وَإِذَا أَنْعَمْنَا عَلَى الْإِنْسَانِ أَعْرَضَ وَنَأَىٰ بِجَانِبِهِ

(And when We show favor to man, he turns away and becomes arrogant;) means, he turns away from doing acts of obedience and is too proud to obey the commands of Allah. This is like the Ayah:

فَتَوَلَّىٰ بِرُكْنِهِ

(But [Fir'awn] turned away along with his hosts)(51:39).

وَإِذَا مَسَّهُ الشَّرُّ

(but when evil touches him,) means, difficulties,

فَذُو دُعَاءٍ عَرِيضٍ

(then he has recourse to long supplications.) means, he asks at length for one thing. Long supplications are those which are long on words and short on meaning. The opposite is concise speech which is brief but full of meaning. And Allah says:

وَإِذَا مَسَّ الْإِنْسَانَ الضُّرُّ دَعَانَا لِجَنْبِهِ أَوْ قَاعِدًا أَوْ قَائِمًا فَلَمَّا كَشَفْنَا عَنْهُ ضُرَّهُ مَرَّ كَأَنْ لَمْ يَدْعُنَا إِلَىٰ ضُرٍّ مَسَّهُ ۚ 

(And when harm touches man, he invokes Us, lying on his side, or sitting or standing. But when We have removed his harm from him, he passes on as if he had never invoked Us for a harm that touched him!)(10:12)