4:62

فَكَيۡفَ إِذَآ أَصَٰبَتۡهُم مُّصِيبَةُۢ بِمَا قَدَّمَتۡ أَيۡدِيهِمۡ ثُمَّ جَآءُوكَ يَحۡلِفُونَ بِٱللَّهِ إِنۡ أَرَدۡنَآ إِلَّآ إِحۡسَٰنٗا وَتَوۡفِيقًا

Fakayfa itha asabathum museebatun bima qaddamat aydeehim thumma jaooka yahlifoona biAllahi in aradna illa ihsanan watawfeeqan

So how [will it be] when disaster strikes them because of what their hands have put forth and then they come to you swearing by Allah, "We intended nothing but good conduct and accommodation."

Word by word
  1. فَكَيۡفَSo how
  2. إِذَآwhen
  3. أَصَٰبَتۡهُمbefalls them
  4. مُّصِيبَةُۢdisaster
  5. بِمَاfor what
  6. قَدَّمَتۡsent forth
  7. أَيۡدِيهِمۡtheir hands
  8. ثُمَّthen
  9. جَآءُوكَthey come to you
  10. يَحۡلِفُونَswearing
  11. بِٱللَّهِby Allah
  12. إِنۡNot
  13. أَرَدۡنَآwe intended
  14. إِلَّآexcept
  15. إِحۡسَٰنٗاgood
  16. وَتَوۡفِيقًاand reconciliation
An-Nisa · 4:62Madinah

After the trouble comes, the excuses start.

Swearing good intentions once things go wrong


The sequence
their own choicewent elsewhere for judgment
brings
a disasterfrom what their hands did
then
they come swearingwe only meant well
What the oath hides
We meant goodwilljust keeping the peace
Need, not convictionthey came because they were stuck

The hypocrites who avoided the Prophet's ﷺ judgment would come back once a disaster hit them because of their own deeds. They swore by Allah that they had only wanted goodwill and reconciliation. Ibn Kathir explains they came out of need, not belief.

You ignored the advice, made the deal, and it fell apart. Now you call the person who warned you and open with, I was only trying to keep everyone happy. The honest sentence is shorter: I chose wrong.

My intentions were good, so the outcome is not really on me.

Swearing to good intentions after the fact is often a way to avoid owning the choice.

Try this

Next time something you chose goes badly, say I got that wrong before any explanation.

Simplified reflection. Read the tafsir for scholarship.draft
Tafsir Ibn Kathir (shared passage from 4:60)

Have you not seen those (hyprocrites) who claim that they believe in that which has been sent down to you, and that which was sent down before you, and they wish to go for judgment (in their disputes) to the Taghut while they have been ordered to reject them. But Shaytan wishes to lead them far astray (60)And when it is said to them: "Come to what Allah has sent down and to the Messenger," you see the hypocrites turn away from you with aversion (61)How then, when a catastrophe befalls them because of what their hands have sent forth, they come to you swearing by Allah, "We meant no more than goodwill and conciliation! (62)They (hypocrites) are those of whom Allah knows what is in their hearts; so turn aside from them (do not punish them) but admonish them, and speak to them an effective word to reach their inner selves (63)

Referring to Other than the Qur'an and Sunnah for Judgment is Characteristic of Non-Muslims

Allah chastises those who claim to believe in what Allah has sent down to His Messenger ﷺ and to the earlier Prophets, yet they refer to other than the Book of Allah and the Sunnah of His Messenger ﷺ for judgment in various disputes. It was reported that the reason behind revealing this Ayah was that a man from the Ansar and a Jew had a dispute, and the Jew said, "Let us refer to Muhammad to judge between us." However, the Muslim man said, "Let us refer to Ka'b bin Al-Ashraf (a Jew) to judge between us." It was also reported that the Ayah was revealed about some hypocrites who pretended to be Muslims, yet they sought to refer to the judgment of Jahiliyyah. Other reasons were also reported behind the revelation of the Ayah. However, the Ayah has a general meaning, as it chastises all those who refrain from referring to the Qur'an and Sunnah for judgment and prefer the judgment of whatever they chose of falsehood, which befits the description of Taghut here. This is why Allah said,

يُرِيدُونَ أَن يَتَحَاكَمُوا إِلَى الطَّاغُوتِ

(and they wish to go for judgment to the Taghut) until the end of the Ayah. Allah's statement,

يَصُدُّونَ عَنكَ صُدُودًا

(turn away from you with aversion) means, they turn away from you in arrogance, just as Allah described the polytheists,

وَإِذَا قِيلَ لَهُمُ اتَّبِعُوا مَا أَنزَلَ اللَّهُ قَالُوا بَلْ نَتَّبِعُ مَا وَجَدْنَا عَلَيْهِ آبَاءَنَا

(When it is said to them: "Follow what Allah has sent down." They say: "Nay! We shall follow what we found our fathers following.")[31:21] This is different from the conduct of the faithful believers, whom Allah describes as,

إِنَّمَا كَانَ قَوْلَ الْمُؤْمِنِينَ إِذَا دُعُوا إِلَى اللَّهِ وَرَسُولِهِ لِيَحْكُمَ بَيْنَهُمْ أَن يَقُولُوا سَمِعْنَا وَأَطَعْنَا

(The only saying of the faithful believers, when they are called to Allah and His Messenger, to judge between them, is that they say: "We hear and we obey.")[24:51]

Chastising the Hypocrites

Chastising the hypocrites, Allah said,

فَكَيْفَ إِذَا أَصَابَتْهُم مُّصِيبَةٌ بِمَا قَدَّمَتْ أَيْدِيهِمْ

(How then, when a catastrophe befalls them because of what their hands have sent forth,) meaning, how about it if they feel compelled to join you because of disasters that they suffer due to their sins, then they will be in need of you.

ثُمَّ جَاءُوكَ يَحْلِفُونَ بِاللَّهِ إِنْ أَرَدْنَا إِلَّا إِحْسَانًا وَتَوْفِيقًا

(They come to you swearing by Allah, "We meant no more than goodwill and conciliation!") apologizing and swearing that they only sought goodwill and reconciliation when they referred to other than the Prophet ﷺ for judgment, not that they believe in such alternative judgment, as they claim. Allah describes these people to us further in His statement,

فَتَرَى الَّذِينَ فِي قُلُوبِهِم مَّرَضٌ يُسَارِعُونَ فِيهِمْ يَقُولُونَ نَخْشَىٰ

(And you see those in whose hearts there is a disease (of hypocrisy), they hurry to their friendship, saying: "We fear")[5:52], until,

فَيُصْبِحُوا عَلَىٰ مَا أَسَرُّوا فِي أَنفُسِهِمْ نَادِمِينَ

(Then they will become regretful for what they have been keeping as a secret in themselves). [5:52]

At-Tabarani recorded that Ibn 'Abbas said, "Abu Barzah Al-Aslami used to be a soothsayer who judged between the Jews in their disputes. When some Muslims came to him to judge between them, Allah sent down,

أَلَمْ تَرَ إِلَى الَّذِينَ يَزْعُمُونَ أَنَّهُمْ آمَنُوا بِمَا أُنزِلَ إِلَيْكَ وَمَا أُنزِلَ مِن قَبْلِكَ

(Have you not seen those (hyprocrites) who claim that they believe in that which has been sent down to you, and that which was sent down before you), until,

إِنْ أَرَدْنَا إِلَّا إِحْسَانًا وَتَوْفِيقًا

("We meant no more than goodwill and conciliation!") Allah then said,

أُولَٰئِكَ الَّذِينَ يَعْلَمُ اللَّهُ مَا فِي قُلُوبِهِمْ

(They (hypocrites) are those of whom Allah knows what is in their hearts;)

These people are hypocrites, and Allah knows what is in their hearts and will punish them accordingly, for nothing escapes Allah's watch. Consequently, O Muhammad! Let Allah be sufficient for you in this regard, because He has perfect knowledge of their apparent and hidden affairs. This is why Allah said,

فَأَعْرِضْ عَنْهُمْ

(so turn aside from them (do not punish them)) meaning, do not punish them because of what is in their hearts.

وَعِظْهُمْ 

(but admonish them) means, advise them against the hypocrisy and evil that reside in their hearts,

وَقُل لَّهُمْ فِي أَنفُسِهِمْ قَوْلًا بَلِيغًا

(and speak to them an effective word to reach their inner selves) advise them, between you and them, using effective words that might benefit them.